In life, we can’t avoid experiencing offense. However, the Bible does command us as believers to ensure we are not offending other people (Luke 17:1). How you deal with it when it comes–whether you take offense and let it become a demonic trap or use it as an opportunity to grow—is really up to you.
What’s interesting is that the word “offense” used in the New Testament is scandalon. Scandalon was the trigger of a trap on which bait is placed. When an animal touched the trigger to eat the bait, the trap would spring shut and the animal would get caught. Offense works the same way. Whether the hurt was intentional or not makes no difference—the bait is laid, and if you take it, the trap springs shut, leading to unforgiveness and bitterness. Here is how offense looks and how to overcome it.
Offense is a stumbling block to your destiny.
The Profile of an Offended Person
Entitlement – An offended person feels like they are owed something. They value what they have in themselves and feel like they worked very hard and deserve to be elevated. When they don’t receive what they believe they deserve, they feel rejected and become offended.
Pride – Pride makes people blind to their own flaws and causes them to blame others for their downfall. When corrected, they interpret it as, “I messed up again,” rather than seeing it as an opportunity for growth.
Focus on Unfairness – Offended people often feel that church leaders and others treat them unfairly. They get hurt when their gifts are not recognized and build resentment. Many times, God allows perceived unfairness to test and refine our character.
Control – Offended people often desire to control situations. When they cannot have things their way, they get offended and leave relationships or churches. If they had stayed under strong, anointed leadership that didn’t cater to their selfish ambitions, they would have received the healing they didn’t even realize they needed.
How to Overcome Offense
Offense focuses your attention on what people did rather than what God is doing.
It blinds you to God’s timing and purpose, keeping you stuck in bitterness instead of moving forward in faith. Here’s how to overcome it.
1. When Your Heart is Hardened, Good Things Happening to You Will Not Change It
First off, it’s important to understand that people whose hearts are hardened by offense think that if their environment changes, they will no longer be offended. But, a hardened heart does not soften just because circumstances improve.
Psalm 95:7-11 and Hebrews repeat the warning: “When you hear my voice, do not harden your heart, as in the day of wilderness, when your fathers saw my works, yet they rebelled against me.” The Israelites saw miracles, yet they remained hardened in their hearts. Even with a great leader like Moses and supernatural provision, their offense remained.
2. Take God Very Seriously, and Stop Taking Yourself Too Seriously
Secondly, know that offended people are often obsessed with themselves. In many cases, they become overly sensitive to what others say but are not sensitive enough to the Holy Spirit. Instead of living in constant offense, we should humble ourselves, focus on God, and learn to live with a servant’s heart.
3. Keep Your Heart Right When Things Are Not Right
Another key step in overcoming offense is understanding that while justice, mercy, and humility are essential, the enemy uses injustice to create offense in our hearts. If things are not right around you, don’t let your heart become sick. You can advocate for change, but never let offense take root.
4. Never Grow Out of Repentance
Next, choose to offer forgiveness to those who have hurt you. I’ve noticed that if you wait too long to forgive, your hurt will turn into bitterness and offense. Unforgiveness will do more damage to you than what others did. Growth in God means constant repentance and humility.
Never outgrow your need for repentance.
5. Lean Into Awkward Conversations
And lastly, the Bible tells us in Matthew 5:23 that, “If you bring your gift to the altar and remember that your brother has something against you, leave your gift there and first be reconciled.”
In other words, if you know someone is offended at you, it is your responsibility to go to them. Instead of defending yourself, hear them out, affirm their feelings, and take responsibility where necessary. Many relationships have been healed through this approach. Unfortunately, instead of going to the person, people often gossip and build “us versus them” cultures, which only fuels division and offense.
Don’t let Satan trap you; instead, choose to walk away from offense, deny yourself, and follow Jesus. I pray this helps.
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**By Vlad Savchuk at Vladimir Savchuk Ministries / Photo by ClickerHappy at Pexels
The spirit of self-pity is a powerful and deceptive force that keeps people trapped in cycles of discouragement, victimhood, and isolation. It is a subdivision of the orphan spirit, which operates through feelings of rejection, abandonment, and a lack of true identity in Christ. While the orphan spirit causes people to feel fatherless—struggling with belonging and love—the spirit of self-pity keeps them focused on their pain, disappointments, and perceived injustices rather than on God’s truth and healing.
The world is filled with people who, despite their successes or outward confidence, struggle with a deep-rooted sense of rejection, abandonment, and victimhood. This unseen yet powerful force is often referred to as the orphan spirit—a mindset that convinces people they are alone, unwanted, and must fight for everything on their own.
Closely tied to this is the spirit of self-pity and victim mentality, which leads individuals to dwell on past hurts, blame others for their struggles, and believe that life is unfairly stacked against them. But there is good news: God never intended for us to live as orphans, slaves to our past, or prisoners of self-pity. Through Christ, we are offered sonship, freedom, and identity as beloved children of God. This article explores the orphan spirit, its effects, and how we can fully embrace our God-given identity through the renewal of our minds.
Understanding the Spirit of Self-Pity and Victim Mentality
Characteristics of the Spirit of Self-Pity
1. Victim Mentality – A person under this influence constantly feels like life is unfair, that others are against them, and that they are always on the receiving end of mistreatment.
2. Emotional Paralysis – Instead of seeking healing or moving forward, self-pity keeps people stuck in their wounds, reliving past hurts instead of embracing growth.
3. Attention-Seeking Behavior – Those struggling with self-pity may often seek affirmation from others, hoping to receive sympathy rather than seeking true healing from God.
4. Resentment and Bitterness – When self-pity goes unchecked, it can turn into deep resentment toward God and others, leading to an inability to forgive.
5. Isolation and Loneliness – It convinces people that no one understands them or cares, reinforcing the orphan spirit’s lie that they are alone.
How It Ties into the Orphan Spirit
The orphan spirit makes people feel unloved, unwanted, and abandoned, leading them to seek identity and worth outside of God. The spirit of self-pity then feeds off this orphan mindset, reinforcing the idea that “no one cares” or “God has forgotten me.” This combination prevents people from embracing their identity as sons and daughters of God, keeping them in bondage to their emotions, past experiences, and negative perceptions of life.
Understanding the Orphan Spirit
The orphan spirit is not just about being physically fatherless; it is a spiritual condition that makes people feel abandoned, rejected, and unworthy. Those who struggle with this spirit often:
• Feel like they must earn love and approval
• Live in constant fear of rejection
• Have difficulty trusting others, including God
• Struggle with deep-seated insecurities
• Operate in self-reliance rather than surrender to God
This mindset is dangerous because it keeps people from fully embracing the love and security that God offers. Instead of seeing themselves as sons and daughters of God, they see themselves as outsiders looking in—never truly belonging.
Romans 8:15 (NIV) – “The Spirit you received does not make you slaves, so that you live in fear again; rather, the Spirit you received brought about your adoption to sonship. And by him we cry out, ‘Abba, Father.’”
God calls us His children, not orphans. To live in an orphan spirit is to deny the full inheritance and identity He has given us.
How Family Wounds Contribute to the Orphan Spirit
The Connection Between the Orphan Spirit, Self-Pity, and a Victim Mentality
Many people struggle with the orphan spirit, self-pity, and a victim mentality because of deep wounds from past relationships—especially with parents, family, or authority figures. When we experience rejection, neglect, or abandonment, it can shape how we see ourselves, how we relate to others, and even how we view God.
These wounds can make us feel like:
• We are unloved or not good enough.
• We must strive for approval and prove our worth.
• No one truly understands or cares about us.
• We are alone, with no one to protect or provide for us.
If these wounds are not healed, they can open the door for the orphan spirit, leading to self-pity and a victim mentality.
1. How Family Wounds Create the Orphan Spirit
Many struggles with identity and self-worth begin in childhood, often due to broken relationships with fathers, mothers, or caregivers.
Father Wounds
The father’s role is to provide love, protection, guidance, and affirmation. If a father was absent, neglectful, abusive, or emotionally distant, it can lead to:
• Feeling unwanted or rejected—leading to an orphan spirit.
• Struggling to trust authority—thinking that leadership will always fail or abandon you.
• Seeking approval through performance—believing love must be earned.
• Fear of rejection—assuming others will eventually leave or betray you.
How This Affects Your Relationship with God:
• You may struggle to see God as a loving, trustworthy Father.
• You might think you have to earn God’s love instead of receiving it freely.
• You may feel that God is distant, silent, or uninterested in your struggles.
Mother Wounds
A mother provides nurturing, comfort, and emotional security. If a mother was overly critical, absent, or emotionally unavailable, it can cause:
• Insecurity and low self-worth—feeling like you’re never “good enough.”
• Fear of abandonment—leading to clinginess or extreme independence.
• Seeking validation from unhealthy relationships—trying to fill the emotional void.
• Self-pity and emotional instability—constantly feeling rejected or unloved.
How This Affects Your Relationships:
• You may struggle with emotional intimacy, either fearing closeness or becoming overly dependent.
• You may seek constant validation from others, feeling empty without external approval.
• You might have difficulty receiving love, believing you are unworthy of it.
Family and Generational Patterns
Beyond parents, family culture can reinforce the orphan spirit. If you grew up in an environment of:
• Dysfunction, brokenness, or divorce—you may feel unsafe and abandoned.
• Comparison or favoritism—you may feel unseen or unworthy.
• Emotional or physical abuse—you may struggle with fear, anger, or self-hatred.
How This Affects Your Mindset:
• You may develop a victim mentality, feeling like life is unfair and always against you.
• You may live in self-pity, believing you will never be loved, helped, or valued.
• You may expect rejection and failure, making it hard to trust or take risks.
How the Orphan Spirit Leads to Self-Pity and a Victim Mentality
When people experience deep wounds, they often feel powerless and abandoned, which can lead to self-pity and a victim mindset.
Signs of Self-Pity & Victim Mentality:
• Blaming Others – Feeling like your life is unfair because of what others have done to you.
• Feeling Powerless – Believing that you can’t change your life or move forward.
• Constantly Seeking Sympathy – Wanting people to feel sorry for you instead of seeking healing.
• Resisting Accountability – Rejecting correction because it feels like further rejection.
• Fearing Rejection – Assuming that people will abandon or betray you.
• Living in the Past – Focusing on past hurts instead of God’s healing and future plans.
Self-pity keeps you trapped because it shifts focus from healing to hopelessness. It makes people believe:
• “No one understands me.”
• “Nothing ever goes right for me.”
• “I’ll always be broken, rejected, or abandoned.”
But these are lies from the enemy! God has called you to freedom, healing, and victory.
Self-Assessment: Do You Have an Orphan Spirit or a Spirit of Sonship?
Orphan Spirit vs. Sonship Questionnaire
This questionnaire is designed to help identify whether someone is operating from an orphan spirit or living in the sonship that God has given through Christ. Answer each question honestly.
Part 1: Identity & Relationship with God
1. Do you struggle to believe that God truly loves and accepts you?
• □ Yes (Orphan)
• □ No (Sonship)
2. Do you feel like you have to earn God’s love through performance, good works, or striving?
• □ Yes (Orphan)
• □ No (Sonship)
3. When you sin or make a mistake, do you feel like you must hide from God or that He is angry with you?
• □ Yes (Orphan)
• □ No (Sonship)
4. Do you see yourself as God’s beloved child, or do you feel more like a servant/slave in His kingdom?
• □ I feel more like a servant (Orphan)
• □ I know I’m His beloved child (Sonship)
Part 2: Relationship with Others
5. Do you often compare yourself to others, feeling either inferior or superior?
• □ Yes (Orphan)
• □ No (Sonship)
6. Do you struggle with jealousy or competition, feeling the need to prove yourself?
• □ Yes (Orphan)
• □ No (Sonship)
7. Do you have trouble trusting others, fearing that they will reject or abandon you?
• □ Yes (Orphan)
• □ No (Sonship)
8. Do you struggle with receiving love, encouragement, or correction from spiritual leaders or mentors?
• □ Yes (Orphan)
• □ No (Sonship)
Part 3: Emotional and Mental State
9. Do you often feel lonely, unwanted, or like you don’t belong?
• □ Yes (Orphan)
• □ No (Sonship)
10. Do you battle self-pity, feeling like no one understands or cares about you?
• □ Yes (Orphan)
• □ No (Sonship)
11. Do you live with a constant fear of failure, rejection, or abandonment?
• □ Yes (Orphan)
• □ No (Sonship)
12. Do you feel secure in your identity in Christ, knowing you are loved regardless of circumstances?
• □ No (Orphan)
• □ Yes (Sonship)
Part 4: Spiritual Growth & Freedom
13. When you pray, do you feel like a child talking to their loving Father, or do you feel distant from God?
• □ Distant/Disconnected (Orphan)
• □ Close/Intimate (Sonship)
14. Do you struggle with condemnation and guilt, or do you walk in the confidence of God’s grace?
• □ I struggle with guilt (Orphan)
• □ I walk in grace (Sonship)
15. Do you serve God out of love and joy, or out of duty and obligation?
• □ Duty/Obligation (Orphan)
• □ Love/Joy (Sonship)
How to Evaluate Your Answers
• If you answered mostly “Orphan”, it’s likely that the orphan spirit is influencing your thoughts, emotions, and actions. But the good news is that God is calling you into freedom, identity, and sonship!
• If you answered mostly “Sonship”, you are walking in your identity as a child of God, but continue to grow in His love and confidence.
Would you like help in moving from an orphan mindset to fully embracing your sonship in Christ?
Reborn and Led by The Spirit
As born-again Christians, we are spiritually reborn and called to live by the Spirit, not by the mindset of the world. Galatians 3:26-29 states:
“For you are all sons of God through faith in Christ Jesus. For as many of you as were baptized into Christ have put on Christ. There is neither Jew nor Greek, there is neither slave nor free, there is neither male nor female; for you are all one in Christ Jesus. And if you are Christ’s, then you are Abraham’s seed, and heirs according to the promise.”
This passage reminds us that in Christ, we are a new creation, no longer bound by worldly divisions, labels, or old identities. The orphan spirit—including self-pity—is tied to the old way of thinking, where people define themselves by past wounds, social status, or human identity rather than their identity in Christ.
Renewing the Mind and Overcoming the Orphan Spirit
Romans 12:2 emphasizes this transformation:
“Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, that you may prove what is that good and acceptable and perfect will of God.”
This renewal happens through:
1. Obeying the Holy Spirit – The Spirit leads us into truth, teaching us to reject self-pity, fear, and an orphan mindset. (John 16:13)
2. Thinking Differently from the World – The world teaches us to dwell on pain, offense, and injustice, but we are called to focus on God’s truth, love, and purpose. (Colossians 3:2)
3. Walking in Sonship – Instead of acting like spiritual orphans—seeking validation, striving, or feeling abandoned—we rest in the reality that we are God’s children, fully loved and accepted. (Romans 8:15-17)
Living as Spirit-Led, Reborn Christians
If we truly follow the leading of the Holy Spirit, we won’t allow self-pity, victimhood, or worldly thinking to dominate our lives. Instead, we will:
• Walk in boldness and confidence in our identity as children of God.
• Refuse to dwell on past hurts because we know we are healed and redeemed.
• See ourselves as God sees us—not by worldly status, race, or background, but as part of God’s kingdom.
• Live in gratitude and faith, knowing that we are heirs of the promise.
How to Practically Walk in Sonship and Reject the Orphan Spirit
Living as a renewed, Spirit-led believer means intentionally rejecting old thought patterns and embracing our identity in Christ daily. Here’s how you can walk this out practically:
Renew Your Mind Daily with God’s Word
• Meditate on Scripture – Read and declare verses about your identity in Christ, such as:
• Romans 8:15-17 – “You have received the Spirit of adoption, by whom we cry, ‘Abba, Father!’”
• Ephesians 1:4-5 – “He predestined us for adoption to Himself as sons through Jesus Christ.”
• Replace Lies with Truth – Whenever thoughts of self-pity, rejection, or fear come, speak God’s truth over yourself.
Breaking Free from the Spirit of Self-Pity
1. Recognise It as a Spiritual Battle
Self-pity is not just an emotional issue; it is a spiritual stronghold that must be confronted with truth. The enemy uses self-pity to keep people inward-focused and defeated, but God calls us to walk in faith, freedom, and victory (2 Corinthians 10:4-5).
2. Repent and Renounce It
Acknowledge self-pity as a sinful mindset that contradicts God’s promises. Repent for believing the lies of the enemy, renounce self-pity in prayer, and ask for God’s forgiveness.
3. Embrace Your Identity in Christ
The antidote to the orphan spirit is sonship. God has not left us as orphans—He calls us His beloved children:
“For you did not receive the spirit of bondage again to fear, but you received the Spirit of adoption by whom we cry out, ‘Abba, Father.’” (Romans 8:15)
Meditate on scriptures that affirm God’s love and your position as His child (Galatians 4:7, John 1:12).
4. Shift Focus to Gratitude
Self-pity thrives on what is lacking, but gratitude shifts the focus to God’s blessings and faithfulness.
“In everything give thanks; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you.” (1 Thessalonians 5:18)
Start keeping a gratitude journal—write down daily testimonies of God’s goodness.
5. Engage in Spiritual Warfare
Pray against the stronghold of self-pity and declare God’s truth over your life. Use scriptures like:
• Isaiah 41:10 – “Do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God.”
• 2 Timothy 1:7 – “For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and a sound mind.”
• Psalm 147:3 – “He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds.”
6. Seek Godly Community
Isolation fuels self-pity, but healing happens in community. Surround yourself with believers who will encourage you, speak life into you, and hold you accountable.
Walking in Freedom and Sonship
The spirit of self-pity is a deceptive tool of the enemy, keeping people trapped in pain and powerlessness. But God calls His children to live in freedom, faith, and fullness.
By rejecting self-pity and embracing God’s love and truth, we can break free from the orphan spirit and walk in our true identity as beloved sons and daughters of God.
Declare This Today:
“I am not an orphan! I am a child of God, loved, accepted, and chosen. I reject self-pity, and I walk in the fullness of God’s promises for my life!”
God has not forgotten you. He has not abandoned you. You are His child—chosen, loved, and set apart for His glory.
It’s time to rise above self-pity, cast off the orphan spirit, and step into the abundant life Christ has for you.
Recognize the Lies & Replace Them with Truth
The enemy uses wounds from the past to make us believe we are alone, rejected, or unworthy. But God’s Word says:
• Lie: “I am alone.” → Truth: “God will never leave me nor forsake me.” (Deuteronomy 31:6)
• Lie: “I have to earn love.” → Truth: “I am accepted in the Beloved.” (Ephesians 1:6)
• Lie: “I will always be rejected.” → Truth: “Nothing can separate me from God’s love.” (Romans 8:38-39)
• Lie: “My past defines me.” → Truth: “Anyone in Christ is a new creation.” (2 Corinthians 5:17)
These truths from God’s Word help break the power of the orphan spirit and victim mentality. Whenever you hear the lies of the enemy, counter them with God’s truth. Remember, you are loved, accepted, and chosen by God.
Forgive & Let Go of the Past
One of the biggest ways the orphan spirit and self-pity hold people captive is through unforgiveness. To fully walk in freedom, you must release any bitterness, resentment, or pain from your past.
• Forgive parents or family members who hurt you.
• Forgive yourself for any wrong choices you’ve made.
• Forgive God if you have felt like He abandoned you.
Prayer for Forgiveness:
“Father, I forgive those who have hurt me. I release them from any debt they owe me. I choose to walk in freedom, not in bitterness. Heal my heart and fill me with Your love. In Jesus’ Name, Amen.”
Conclusion: Embracing Your True Identity in Christ
Healing from the orphan spirit, self-pity, and victim mentality requires recognizing the lies that have held you captive and replacing them with God’s truth. These deceptive forces keep individuals trapped in cycles of rejection, discouragement, and powerlessness. However, through Christ, we are no longer orphans—we are beloved sons and daughters of God, fully accepted and deeply loved. This journey involves forgiving those who have hurt you, forgiving yourself, and allowing God to heal the wounds of your past. As you embrace your true identity, you will experience the freedom, love, and peace that only He can offer, walking in the fullness of His promises and living in the victory He has already secured for you.
Final Declaration:
I reject the orphan spirit, self-pity, and victim mentality. I embrace my identity as a beloved child of God. I walk in freedom, victory, and the fullness of His promises for my life!”Now is the time to rise up, shake off the chains of the past, and step boldly into your God-given destiny. You are no longer an orphan. You are a beloved child of God, free and victorious in Christ, walk in the power of that truth!
The Magnificence of Christ Our Savior and Soon-Coming King
The story of Jesus Christ is the centerpiece of human history. His birth, life, death, resurrection, and promised return encapsulate the glory of God’s redemptive plan. Jesus, whose name means “The Lord saves,” is also called Emmanuel, meaning “God with us” (Matthew 1:21-23). His magnificence is proclaimed not only by heavenly hosts but also by humble shepherds, learned Magi, devout prophets, and even the unborn John the Baptist, pointing to His divine mission to save humanity from sin and reconcile us to God.
The Prophecies of the Messiah
Long before His earthly arrival, the coming of the Messiah was foretold by the prophets. These prophecies reveal the grandeur of His identity and mission:
His Virgin Birth: Isaiah prophesied that the Messiah would be born of a virgin, signifying a divine and miraculous conception: “The virgin will conceive and give birth to a son, and will call him Emmanuel” (Isaiah 7:14).
His Identity and Mission: Isaiah described the Messiah as both a mighty ruler and a source of eternal peace: “For to us a child is born, to us a son is given, and the government will be on his shoulders. And he will be called Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace” (Isaiah 9:6).
His Eternal Kingship: The prophet Daniel foretold that the Messiah’s kingdom would never end: “His dominion is an everlasting dominion that will not pass away, and his kingdom is one that will never be destroyed” (Daniel 7:14).
The Place of His Birth: Micah foretold that the Messiah would be born in Bethlehem: “But you, Bethlehem Ephrathah, though you are small among the clans of Judah, out of you will come for me one who will be ruler over Israel, whose origins are from of old, from ancient times” (Micah 5:2).
The Announcements of His Birth
The fulfillment of these prophecies was marked by divine announcements and extraordinary events.
To Mary
The angel Gabriel appeared to Mary, a humble young woman in Nazareth, and declared: “Do not be afraid, Mary; you have found favor with God. You will conceive and give birth to a son, and you are to call him Jesus. He will be great and will be called the Son of the Most High. The Lord God will give him the throne of his father David, and he will reign over Jacob’s descendants forever; his kingdom will never end” (Luke 1:30-33).
Mary, in awe, humbly accepted God’s will, saying: “I am the Lord’s servant. May your word to me be fulfilled” (Luke 1:38).
To Joseph
Joseph, initially troubled upon learning of Mary’s pregnancy, was reassured by an angel in a dream: “Joseph son of David, do not be afraid to take Mary home as your wife, because what is conceived in her is from the Holy Spirit. She will give birth to a son, and you are to give him the name Jesus, because he will save his people from their sins” (Matthew 1:20-21).
The Joy of Elizabeth and Unborn John
After receiving the angel Gabriel’s announcement, Mary went to visit her relative Elizabeth, who was miraculously pregnant with John the Baptist in her old age. As soon as Mary greeted Elizabeth, an extraordinary event occurred:
“When Elizabeth heard Mary’s greeting, the baby leaped in her womb, and Elizabeth was filled with the Holy Spirit. In a loud voice, she exclaimed: ‘Blessed are you among women, and blessed is the child you will bear! But why am I so favored, that the mother of my Lord should come to me? As soon as the sound of your greeting reached my ears, the baby in my womb leaped for joy’” (Luke 1:41-44).
This moment underscores Jesus’s divine nature even as an unborn child. John, filled with the Holy Spirit even in the womb, recognized and rejoiced in the presence of the Savior.
The Birth of the Savior
The birth of Jesus was marked by simplicity and splendor. Born in Bethlehem, He was laid in a manger because there was no room for them in the inn. This humble setting did not diminish His magnificence but instead highlighted His mission to bring salvation to all people, from the lowliest to the greatest.
The Celebration of His Birth
The Shepherds – The First Witnesses
On the night of Jesus’s birth, shepherds in the fields outside Bethlehem became the first to hear the good news. An angel of the Lord appeared to them, proclaiming: “Do not be afraid. I bring you good news that will cause great joy for all the people. Today in the town of David a Savior has been born to you; he is the Messiah, the Lord. This will be a sign to you: You will find a baby wrapped in cloths and lying in a manger” (Luke 2:10-12).
Suddenly, a multitude of heavenly hosts praised God, saying: “Glory to God in the highest heaven, and on earth peace to those on whom his favor rests” (Luke 2:14).
The shepherds, filled with wonder, hurried to Bethlehem. Finding Mary, Joseph, and the baby as the angel described, they became the first earthly witnesses to proclaim His arrival: “When they had seen him, they spread the word concerning what had been told them about this child, and all who heard it were amazed” (Luke 2:17-18).
The Magi – Honored Guests from the East
Some time later, wise men (Magi) from the East arrived in Jerusalem, guided by a miraculous star. They asked: “Where is the one who has been born king of the Jews? We saw his star when it rose and have come to worship him” (Matthew 2:2).
Herod, troubled by their inquiry, sought to use the Magi to locate Jesus for sinister purposes. But the star led the Magi to Bethlehem, where they found Jesus. They worshiped Him and offered gifts of gold, frankincense, and myrrh—symbols of His kingship, divinity, and sacrificial death (Matthew 2:11).
Warned in a dream not to return to Herod, the Magi departed another way, protecting the child from harm.
Simeon and Anna’s Testimonies
When Mary and Joseph brought Jesus to the temple for consecration, Simeon, a devout man awaiting the Messiah, took the child in his arms and praised God: “Sovereign Lord, as you have promised, you may now dismiss your servant in peace. For my eyes have seen your salvation, which you have prepared in the sight of all nations: a light for revelation to the Gentiles, and the glory of your people Israel” (Luke 2:29-32).
The prophetess Anna, who worshiped in the temple day and night, also recognized Jesus as the Redeemer. She gave thanks to God and spoke about Him to all who were awaiting the redemption of Jerusalem (Luke 2:36-38).
Jesus: The Savior and Soon-Coming King
The magnificence of Jesus extends far beyond His birth. He lived a sinless life, taught with divine authority, performed miracles, and ultimately gave His life as a ransom for many (Mark 10:45). Through His death and resurrection, He conquered sin and death, offering eternal life to all who believe in Him: “For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life” (John 3:16).
As we celebrate His birth, we also look forward to His glorious return, when He will reign as King of Kings and Lord of Lords: “Look, he is coming with the clouds, and every eye will see him” (Revelation 1:7).
Conclusion
The birth of Jesus Christ is a cause for joy and celebration. His arrival fulfilled ancient prophecies, was heralded by angels, acknowledged by shepherds, worshiped by wise men, and even celebrated by John the Baptist in the womb. He is Emmanuel, God with us, who came to save His people from their sins and bring light to the world.
As we await His return, let us proclaim with the heavenly hosts: “Glory to God in the highest heaven, and on earth peace to those on whom his favor rests” (Luke 2:14).
In life, some may walk, and others may run, but remember—the same Creator gave both the tortoise and the horse time to reach Noah’s ark. It’s not about the speed or pace of your journey but rather the perseverance to stay the course, trusting in God’s timing. Life can be rough and full of challenges, but if you rely on His guidance, you will reach your destination.
When Jesus encountered Peter, he was an ordinary fisherman—not a religious scholar, a leader, or a figure of faith. Peter was impulsive, hot-tempered, and unrefined, known for using rough language and even denying Jesus at a crucial moment. Yet, Jesus still called Peter, saying, “Follow Me, and I will make you fishers of men” (Matthew 4:19). Jesus didn’t focus on Peter’s weaknesses; He saw beyond them to Peter’s potential to become a history-maker. God doesn’t see us through the lens of our flaws or failures but with eyes of love and purpose, calling each of us to leave behind our past and step into His divine plan.
Consider Joseph’s journey in the Bible. His father, Jacob, saw him as a beloved son, but his brothers only saw a dreamer and plotted against him. To travelers, Joseph was merely a slave; to Potiphar, a loyal servant; and to Potiphar’s wife, a man she could try to seduce and manipulate. Even in prison, Joseph was labeled a prisoner. But through God’s eyes, Joseph was something far more: he was a leader, a future Prime Minister of Egypt in the making. His story reminds us that, while others’ judgments can feel limiting, God’s vision surpasses them all. He sees the purpose, promise, and potential within each of us. Don’t let others’ labels define you—God sees a masterpiece being shaped within you.
Throughout the Bible, God calls people from humble, flawed, or broken circumstances and transforms them for His purpose. David was a shepherd boy, unseen and overlooked, yet chosen by God to be king. Esther, an orphan, was elevated to queen and used her influence to save her people. Even those you might overlook today, like a gardener or a maid, may be destined for greatness, seen by God with unique purpose. God’s grace isn’t limited by background, social standing, or appearances; He sees beyond our pasts to the hearts and potential within us.
God’s transformative power touches lives from all backgrounds and walks of life. Abraham was elderly, yet he became the father of nations. David was young, yet anointed as king. Esther was a woman in a male-dominated society, yet she rose to royalty. Paul was once a violent persecutor of Christians, yet he became a pillar of the church. Moses stuttered and doubted himself, yet God chose him to lead His people to freedom. Zacchaeus was short and despised as a tax collector, yet Jesus chose to visit his home. Mary Magdalene was once a prostitute, known for a sinful life, yet she became a devoted follower of Jesus and a symbol of redemption. These lives show that God’s power can redeem anyone, turning brokenness into testimony and struggles into stories of faith.
Our God is a God of transformation. He has never made a promise He couldn’t keep. He has never encountered a person He couldn’t help, a prayer He wouldn’t answer, or a sinner He wouldn’t forgive. This is the God we serve—unchanging, ever-present, and all-powerful. No matter what stage of life you find yourself in, rest in the knowledge that God sees the best in you. His love is without limits, His grace is sufficient, and His plans for you are always for good. As you walk through life, remember: it doesn’t matter how people see you; it only matters how God sees you.
Prayer
“Father, thank You that You look beyond my flaws and see a masterpiece in the making. I trust that You’re working in my life, transforming weaknesses into strengths, brokenness into purpose, and my journey into testimony. Help me to see myself as You see me, full of potential and purpose. I am grateful that Your grace is sufficient for every step of my journey. In Jesus’ Name, Amen.”
Take heart, and trust in His plan. Share His love with others, lift each other up, and be reminded every day that God’s grace covers all. Embrace the journey, lean into His grace, and know you are loved, chosen, and called. Be encouraged—God’s grace covers all.
Then Judas, His betrayer, seeing that He had been condemned, was remorseful and brought back the thirty pieces of silver to the chief priests and elders, saying, “I have sinned by betraying innocent blood.” ~ Matthew 27:3-5 NKJV
Most of today’s believers do not seem to have the depth, the dedication, or the power that the early Christians had. What do you think is the reason for this?
The primary reason is that they have not repented properly.
The message Jesus Himself preached was: “Repent and believe in the gospel” (Mark 1:15). He commanded His apostles to preach the same message (Luke 24:47). And that’s exactly what they did (Acts 20:21).
The Word of God is very clear on this. Repentance and faith cannot be separated if you want to be well and truly converted. God has joined these two together. And what God has joined together no man should separate.
Repentance and faith are actually the first two elements of the foundation of the Christian life (Hebrews 6:1). If you have not repented properly, then your foundation is bound to be faulty. And then, of course, the whole of your Christian life will be shaky.
We see some examples in the Bible of those whose repentance was false.
“True repentance will involve our whole personality – our mind, our emotions and our will.”
When King Saul disobeyed God, he admitted to Samuel that he had sinned. But he did not want the people to know that. He still sought man’s honour. He had not really repented. He was just sorry that he was caught (1 Samuel 15:24-30). That was the difference between him and King David who openly acknowledged his sin when he fell (Psalm 51).
King Ahab was another like Saul. He felt really sorry for himself when Elijah warned him that God was going to judge him. He even put sackcloth on himself and mourned for his sins (1 Kings 21:27-29). But he did not really repent. He was just afraid of God’s judgement.
Judas Iscariot’s case is a clear example of false repentance. When he saw that Jesus had been condemned to death he felt bad and said, “I have sinned”(Matthew 27:3-5). But he made his confession to the priests – just like some do even today! He did not repent – even though he may have felt sad about what he had done. If he had truly repented, he would have gone to the Lord in brokenness and asked for forgiveness. But he did not do that.
There is a lot that we can learn from these examples – as to what repentance is not!
True repentance is a “turning to God from idols” (1 Thessalonians 1:9).
Idols are not just those made of wood and stone found in heathen temples. There are equally dangerous idols that people worship that do not look so ugly. These are the idols of pleasure, comfort, money, one’s reputation, wanting one’s own way etc.
All of us have worshipped these for many years. To repent means to stop worshipping these idols, and to turn away from them to God.
True repentance will involve our whole personality – our mind, our emotions, and our will.
First of all, repentance means that we change our mind about sin and the world. We realise that our sin has separated us from God. We also see that the whole way of life of this world is anti-God. And we want to turn away from that God-dishonouring way of life.
Secondly, repentance involves our emotions. We feel sorrowful about the way we have lived (2 Corinthians 7:10). We hate ourselves for our past actions; and more than that, we detest the greater evil that we see within us that no one else can see (Ezekiel 36:31).
We weep and mourn that we have hurt God so much by the way we have lived. That was the reaction of many great men in the Bible when they became aware of their sins. David (Psalm 51), Job (Job 42:6) and Peter (Matthew 26:75) – all wept bitterly when they repented of their sins.
Both Jesus and the apostles have encouraged us to weep and mourn for our sins (Matthew 5:4; James 4:9). That is the way back to God.
Finally, repentance involves our will. We have to yield our stubborn self-will – ‘wanting our own way’ – and make Jesus Lord of our lives. That means that we are willing to do whatever God wants us to do from now on, whatever the cost and however humiliating it may be.
The prodigal son came back home to his father as a broken, yielded young man who was willing to do anything that his father told him to. That is true repentance (Luke 15:11-24).
We do not have to confess to God every single sin that we have ever committed. It would be impossible to remember all of them in any case. The prodigal son did not do that. All that he said was, “Father, I have sinned.” And that is all we need to say too.
But remember that Judas Iscariot also said, “I have sinned.” There was a world of difference however, between his confession and the prodigal son’s confession. God does not listen only to the words we say. He senses the spirit behind the words, and deals with us accordingly.
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