Many, when they think of Almighty God, view Him as some kind of celestial Santa Claus or a genie in a bottle—someone who exists to grant wishes if approached the “right” way. And when life does not unfold according to their desires, when prayers are not answered on their terms or in their timing, disappointment quickly turns into resentment. They begin to accuse God of not loving them, withdraw from prayer and fellowship, and eventually declare, “Christianity didn’t work for me.”
The truth is, many never came to Christ for the right reasons. They did not come in repentance, seeking deliverance from sin and reconciliation with God. Instead, they were sold a counterfeit gospel—the ever-prevalent health and wealth message that tickles the ears and flatters the flesh. This false gospel promises comfort without surrender, blessing without obedience, and salvation without sanctification. It appeals to a worldly mindset that believes it can live as it pleases while still doing “business” with God, as if the Creator were on the same level as His creation.
When expectations go unmet, some respond by punishing God—by withholding worship, abandoning church, and returning to their former way of life. They blame God and His Church, citing offenses, disappointments, or the failures of people. “No one visited me when I was sick. No one helped me. There are wicked people in the church.” And while these experiences may be painful and even real, they must be understood rightly.
God’s people are not perfect. The Church is not a museum of saints; it is a hospital for sinners. Every believer is a work in progress, being sanctified day by day until Christ returns. Jesus alone is perfect. People—saved or unsaved—will let you down. That reality should never be used as a reason to take offense at God or to reject His Church. The failures of people are not a reflection of God’s holiness, but of the broken world in which we live.
The Bible makes it clear that not everyone who goes to church goes for the right reasons. Satan himself goes to church; Scripture tells us he comes as an angel of light, seeking to deceive, to kill, steal, and destroy. Some people hide behind religion while harboring unrepentant sin. Others resist the work of the Holy Spirit, resulting in no spiritual growth, no transformation, and no sanctification. When such individuals act wickedly, it brings reproach upon the Church—but it does not negate the truth of the gospel.
This is why believers must remain spiritually alert. We are called to forgive quickly, walk in humility, and use the discernment God has given us. We must continually seek His wisdom and guidance, especially in these evil, wicked, and degenerate times. The chaos we see in the world is not random—it points to one undeniable truth: Jesus is coming back soon.
We do not go to church to get; we go to church to give—our worship, our gratitude, our obedience, and our lives. Church is not a consumer service, and God is not a vendor. He is the Holy One, the Creator of heaven and earth, before whom every knee will bow and every tongue will confess. Fellowship is not about what benefits me first, but about loving God above all and loving others as ourselves. When the focus becomes, “What did I receive?” rather than, “How did I honor God?” the heart has already drifted from true faith.
The Christian life was never promised to be easy, comfortable, or free from suffering. Scripture is clear: we are called to deny ourselves, take up our cross, and follow Christ. Trials refine us; they do not disprove God’s love. Suffering does not mean abandonment—it often means discipline, growth, and deeper dependence on Him. The early church did not grow through comfort, wealth, and applause, but through persecution, sacrifice, and unwavering devotion to Christ.
Blaming God or the church for unmet expectations only reveals that the foundation was never repentance and surrender, but self-interest. True faith does not ask, “What can God do for me?” but rather, “Lord, what would You have me do?” A relationship with God is not transactional; it is transformational. He is not here to serve our desires—we are here to serve His will.
The gospel is not about self-fulfillment; it is about salvation. Jesus did not come to make us rich, popular, or comfortable—He came to save sinners, to reconcile us to God, and to give us new hearts. Grace is not a license to continue in sin, but the power to walk in holiness. Those who truly encounter Christ are changed—not because life becomes easier, but because their allegiance has shifted from self to Savior.
So let us examine ourselves honestly. Are we following Christ for who He is, or for what we think He can give us? Are we worshipping God, or using Him? True Christianity perseveres when prayers seem unanswered, when people disappoint us, when the church feels imperfect, and when obedience costs something. Faith that only survives prosperity was never faith at all.
God is not mocked. He is worthy of reverence, obedience, humility, and awe. And when we finally understand that He owes us nothing—yet has given us everything in Christ—we will stop sulking, stop bargaining, stop blaming, and stop walking away. Instead, we will stand firm, forgive freely, discern wisely, and worship Him in spirit and in truth as we await the glorious return of our Lord Jesus Christ.
In light of all this, let us pause and remember who God truly is.
So let us give Him the praise, thanks, and reverence due to who He truly is—the Almighty God: holy, glorious, and wondrous to behold; the Creator of the entire universe. He is the One who holds our very breath in His hands, the One who has numbered our days, the One who knitted us together in our mother’s womb and ordained a plan and purpose for our lives before we ever drew our first breath. Let us lay aside false expectations, pride, and self-centered faith, and begin again—here, in humility, repentance, gratitude, and wholehearted worship of the one true and living God.
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