Going From Calling to Confirmation

Life is often marked by seasons, and just like the natural world transitions from spring to summer to fall and winter, our lives are shaped by different stages of growth, challenge, and fulfillment (Gen 8:22). In the story of Joseph, we see how God uses these different seasons to develop us. 

Each season in Joseph’s life is represented by a coat, which marked a unique purpose and challenge for that time period. Here is what these different “coats” can teach us about God’s work in developing us.

The Four Coats of Joseph’s Journey

1. The Coat of Calling (Genesis 37:3)

When Joseph’s father gifts him a tunic, it marked a season of calling in Joseph’s life, where God began to reveal His plans and purpose. This was a good season—a time when Joseph received dreams from God. These dreams showed him as a leader, with his brothers and even the stars bowing before him.

Similarly, we experience a stage like this when God initially calls us. This coat represents the initial call in your life. It’s the season when God plants the seed of a promise, giving you glimpses of your potential and His plans. However, this season is not without its challenges. For Joseph, the very dreams that inspired him also caused jealousy and hatred among his brothers.

The coat of calling teaches us that the favor of God doesn’t exempt us from trials. Instead, it sets the stage for the growth and testing needed to fulfill the promise.

2. The Coat of Contradiction (Genesis 39:16)

The coat of contradiction came into play when Joseph’s brothers stripped him of his tunic. They dipped it in blood and sold him into slavery, sending him far from the dreams he once had. In Potiphar’s house, Joseph served faithfully, but while he was there, the challenges only grew. Potiphar’s wife falsely accused him of sexual assault and Joseph was thrown into prison.

For many of us, this season represents the times when life seems to contradict the promises of God. Experiencing this season is difficult and confusing. At this point in the story, Joseph’s reality looked nothing like his dreams. He was no longer wearing the coat of calling but was instead enduring betrayal, false accusations, and injustice.

Despite the difficulty of this season, wearing this coat reminds us that the promises of God often lead us through times when our path doesn’t quite make sense to us. In these moments, hold onto the call God gave you, even when circumstances oppose it.

3. The Coat of Confinement (Genesis 41:14)

Further in the story, we see that Joseph is thrown into prison, where he learns to wear the coat of confinement. This was a hellish season filled with isolation and delay. Yet even here, God was with Joseph. The Bible says, “And the Lord was with Joseph and showed him mercy, and He gave him favor in the sight of the keeper of the prison” (Gen 39:21).

In this season, Joseph’s faith was tested deeply. Despite being in prison, he used the gifts that God had given him to serve others. Even though his own dreams seemed forgotten, Joseph chose to serve faithfully.

The coat of confinement represents the times when you feel stuck, waiting for God’s promises to unfold. In this season of preparation, God is working on your character and faith. Remain patient and continue to serve others.

4. The Coat of Confirmation (Genesis 41:42)

Lastly, we see in Joseph’s story that it wasn’t until after he had endured many trials and confusing times that his season finally shifted. The Bible says that Pharaoh called him out of prison, and Joseph’s garments were changed once again. This time, Pharaoh placed a royal garment on him, signifying his rise to leadership. Genesis 41:42 says, “Pharaoh took his signet ring off his hand and put it on Joseph’s hand; and he clothed him in garments of fine linen.”

This coat represents the fulfillment of God’s promises. It is the season of confirmation, where everything God has spoken over your life begins to come to pass. Joseph’s journey became one that fulfilled the dream he had received years prior. In the end, we see that he forgave his brothers, stating, “What you meant for evil, God meant it for good” (Genesis 50:20).

The coat of confirmation reminds us that God’s timing is perfect. The hardships and delays we face are all part of His plan to prepare us for the destiny He has for us.

Final Thoughts

Romans 8:28 says, “And we know that all things work together for good to those who love God, to those who are the called according to His purpose.”

Remember that every season has a purpose. Whatever season you find yourself in, trust that God is at work. He is using every coat, every trial, and every triumph to develop you into the person He has called you to be.

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*** By Vladimir Savchuk at HungryGen / Photo by Keenan Constance at Pexels

Bullying – A Practical Guide for All Ages

What is Bullying? Bullying is a harmful behavior that is repeated, intentional, and characterized by a power imbalance. It directly contradicts God’s command to “love your neighbor as yourself” (Mark 12:31). As Christians, we are called to address this behavior with compassion and courage.

Bullying can manifest in various ways:

• Physical bullying: Harming someone’s body or belongings.

• Emotional bullying: Intimidation, exclusion, or shaming.

• Verbal bullying: Teasing, name-calling, or threatening.

• Social bullying: Manipulating friendships, spreading rumors, or cyberbullying.

Cyberbullying, a modern form of bullying, occurs online and can be especially harmful because:

• It is often anonymous.

• It can happen at any time, invading a person’s home and peace.

• Victims may hesitate to report it due to fear or shame.

As Christians, it’s vital to remind ourselves and others that every person is made in God’s image (Genesis 1:27) and deserves dignity and respect.

Warning Signs of Bullying

Bullying can deeply impact individuals emotionally, mentally, and physically. Recognizing the signs allows us to intervene with care.

• Avoidance of specific places like school, work, or social settings.

• Unexplained physical complaints or injuries.

• Changes in mood, withdrawal from friends, or fear of digital devices.

• Significant drops in academic or professional performance.

Jesus teaches us to “carry each other’s burdens” (Galatians 6:2). By being attentive, we can help others find healing and hope.

Addressing Bullying at Home, Work, School, and Church

For Parents and Children

Parents are entrusted by God to nurture their children (Proverbs 22:6). Addressing bullying begins at home:

• Encourage open communication: Ask your child about their experiences.

• Questions like “Do you feel safe at school?” or “Has anyone made you feel uncomfortable online?” can open the door to honesty.

• Model Christ-like empathy: Teach your child to “be kind and compassionate to one another” (Ephesians 4:32) and reassure them that bullying is not their fault.

• Equip your child with courage: Share Proverbs 3:26, “For the Lord will be your confidence.” Teach practical strategies like seeking supportive friendships and walking away from bullies.

• Partner with the school: Work collaboratively with educators to address the issue in a way that reflects grace and justice.

For Adults

Bullying is not limited to children—it can occur in workplaces, social groups, and even churches. As adults, we are called to stand firm against injustice (Micah 6:8).

• Confront bullying with truth: Speak firmly but respectfully. Ephesians 4:15 reminds us to “speak the truth in love.”

• Seek support and accountability: Share concerns with trusted colleagues or leaders. Remember that God places us in community for mutual support (Ecclesiastes 4:9-12).

• Practice self-care through Christ: Turn to prayer, Scripture, and Christian counseling to navigate emotional challenges. Matthew 11:28 invites us to find rest in Christ.

In Schools

Schools should be places of safety and growth. Christian educators and students can make a profound difference:

• Promote kindness and inclusion: Share Proverbs 16:24, “Gracious words are a honeycomb, sweet to the soul and healing to the bones.”

• Teach empathy: Help students understand the value of every person as a child of God.

• Address cyberbullying: Encourage respectful digital interactions and emphasize the call to “love one another” even in online spaces (John 13:34).

In Churches

Churches are meant to reflect the love and unity of Christ. However, bullying can happen even in spiritual communities.

• Lead by example: Church leaders must demonstrate respect and kindness, following Jesus’ example of servant leadership (John 13:14-15).

• Foster unity and reconciliation: Address conflicts directly, encouraging dialogue and forgiveness (Matthew 18:15-17).

• Create inclusive ministries: Ensure no one feels excluded by fostering programs that reflect the diversity of God’s kingdom.

What to Do if You or Someone You Know is Being Bullied

The Bible reminds us that God is “a refuge for the oppressed” (Psalm 9:9). Whether you’re experiencing bullying or supporting someone who is, take these steps:

1. Pray for strength and wisdom: Trust in God’s power to protect and guide you (Psalm 46:1).

2. Seek support from trusted individuals: Speak with a parent, teacher, supervisor, or pastor.

3. Avoid harmful situations: Stay in safe, supportive environments and seek godly counsel.

4. Report the behavior: Escalate concerns to appropriate authorities, trusting that God is a God of justice (Isaiah 30:18).

Self-Care and Mental Health: Restoring Hope Through Christ

Bullying can leave deep emotional scars, but God offers healing and hope.

• Find peace in God’s presence: Turn to Scriptures like Philippians 4:6-7 to experience God’s peace in times of distress.

• Seek help from Christian counselors: Don’t hesitate to involve professionals who share a biblical perspective on healing and wholeness.

• Celebrate your worth in Christ: Remember, you are fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14). Surround yourself with uplifting people who affirm your value in God’s eyes.

Final Thoughts

As Christians, we are called to confront bullying with love, courage, and faith. By leaning on God’s guidance, we can create environments of kindness, respect, and safety for all.

If you or someone you know is experiencing bullying, reach out for help—and trust that God is working to bring restoration and peace. Together, we can embody the light of Christ in a world that so desperately needs it.

Seeking Help and Support

If you or someone you know is experiencing bullying, remember that you are not alone. Reach out for help and trust in God’s promise: “The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit” (Psalm 34:18). Below are resources to guide you toward safety and healing:

In the USA

• National Bullying Prevention Center (PACER): Offers resources for children, parents, and educators to address bullying. Visit pacer.org/bullying or call 1-952-838-9000.

• StopBullying.gov: A government resource that provides information on how to recognize, prevent, and address bullying. Visit stopbullying.gov.

• National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: If bullying has caused emotional distress, contact 988 (or 1-800-273-TALK) for immediate assistance.

• Christian Counseling Resources: Seek guidance from faith-based counseling services such as Focus on the Family (focusonthefamily.com) or the American Association of Christian Counselors (aacc.net).

In the UK

• National Bullying Helpline: Provides practical advice for individuals dealing with bullying. Call 0300 323 0169 or email help@nationalbullyinghelpline.co.uk.

• Anti-Bullying Alliance: Offers resources and campaigns to help prevent bullying in schools and communities. Visit anti-bullyingalliance.org.uk.

• Childline: A resource for children and young people facing bullying. Call 0800 1111 or visit childline.org.uk.

• Bullying UK (Family Lives): Support for families and individuals dealing with bullying. Call their helpline at 0808 800 2222 or visit bullying.co.uk.

Encourage your church community to support anti-bullying efforts by sharing these resources and fostering environments where individuals feel safe and valued. Remember, “God is our refuge and strength, an ever-present help in trouble” (Psalm 46:1).


*** Photo by Alexander Krivitskiy at Pexels

Living Out The Fruits of the Spirit

“But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law.” ~ Galatians 5:22-23 (NIV)

The Fruits of the Spirit are transformative virtues that not only enrich our lives but also positively influence the world around us. They provide a roadmap for living with purpose and reflecting God’s character in our daily actions. Let us explore each of these qualities, their significance, and practical ways to embody them.

Love

Love is the cornerstone of the Christian faith. It represents a selfless, unconditional affection that motivates us to act with compassion and empathy.

Practical Application

Show love through small, intentional acts of kindness each day. Express gratitude, lend a helping hand, or offer a listening ear. Remember, love is not just a feeling but a reflection of God’s heart in action.

“Let all that you do be done in love.” — 1 Corinthians 16:14 (ESV)

Prayer

Heavenly Father, thank You for Your boundless love. Help us to embody Your love in our interactions with others, showing compassion and kindness in all that we do. Amen.

Joy

Joy is a deep, abiding happiness rooted in our relationship with God, independent of external circumstances.

Practical Application

Cultivate joy by beginning each day with gratitude. Maintain a gratitude journal and share joyful moments with others. Joy is contagious—spreading it uplifts those around us.

“Rejoice in the Lord always; again I will say, rejoice!” — Philippians 4:4 (ESV)

Prayer

Lord, thank You for the joy that comes from knowing You. Help us to focus on our blessings and to share joy with others, even in challenging times. Amen.

Peace

Peace is the inner tranquillity that comes from trusting in God, enabling us to remain calm amid life’s challenges.

Practical Application

Dedicate time daily to quiet reflection, prayer, or scripture reading. Taking a walk in nature or meditating on God’s word can provide the serenity needed to handle life’s storms.

“And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.” — Philippians 4:7 (ESV)

Prayer

Gracious God, thank You for the peace that surpasses all understanding. Help us to rest in Your presence and be peacemakers in our relationships. Amen.

Patience

Patience is the ability to endure challenges with grace, responding thoughtfully rather than impulsively.

Practical Application

Reframe frustrating moments as opportunities for growth. When impatience arises, take a deep breath and remember that waiting builds resilience and trust in God.

“Be still before the Lord and wait patiently for him.” — Psalm 37:7 (NIV)

Prayer

Dear Lord, grant us the patience to endure difficulties with grace. Help us to grow through life’s waiting seasons and reflect Your calmness in our actions. Amen.

Kindness

Kindness is an outward expression of love, marked by friendliness, generosity, and consideration for others.

Practical Application

Perform intentional acts of kindness regularly—compliment someone, write a thoughtful note, or assist a colleague. Small gestures often have a lasting impact.

“Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you.” — Ephesians 4:32 (ESV)

Prayer

Heavenly Father, thank You for the gift of kindness. Open our hearts to see opportunities to bless others and reflect Your love through our actions. Amen.

Goodness

Goodness involves moral integrity and a commitment to doing what is right, even when it is difficult.

Practical Application

Set personal integrity goals. Be honest, avoid gossip, and advocate for justice when needed. Striving for goodness inspires others to pursue what is right.

“Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.” — Romans 12:21 (ESV)

Prayer

Lord, thank You for the call to live with goodness and integrity. Guide us to make righteous choices and stand for truth, even in the face of opposition. Amen.

Faithfulness

Faithfulness reflects loyalty and reliability in our relationships and our walk with God.

Practical Application

Develop faithfulness by maintaining consistent prayer and scripture study. Honour your commitments and support others in their times of need.

“The one who calls you is faithful, and he will do it.” — 1 Thessalonians 5:24 (NIV)

Prayer

Gracious God, thank You for Your unwavering faithfulness. Help us to remain loyal in our relationships and deepen our commitment to You. Amen.

Gentleness

Gentleness is the quality of being mild and tender, approaching others with humility and understanding.

Practical Application

Respond thoughtfully in conversations, especially during conflicts. Listen actively and choose calmness over anger, fostering an environment of respect.

“Let your reasonableness be known to everyone. The Lord is at hand.” — Philippians 4:5 (ESV)

Prayer

Lord, thank You for Your gentle spirit. Teach us to respond to others with humility and kindness, reflecting Your grace in our interactions. Amen.

Self-Control

Self-control is the ability to manage our impulses and align our decisions with God’s will.

Practical Application

Set boundaries and practice mindfulness in decision-making. Reflect regularly on your actions, adjusting to align with God’s values.

“For God gave us a spirit not of fear but of power and love and self-control.” — 2 Timothy 1:7 (ESV)

Prayer

Heavenly Father, thank You for the gift of self-control. Strengthen our discipline to resist temptation and live according to Your will. Amen.

Conclusion

Living out the Fruits of the Spirit enriches our lives and inspires those around us to seek God. By actively embodying these virtues, we become beacons of God’s love, peace, and righteousness in the world.

Unshakeable Faith is Essential in a Wavering World

Standing on the solid rock of faith means holding firmly to God’s Word while also being open to learning and growing in our understanding of it. Today, we are commonly told to keep an open mind about our beliefs and how we interpret the Word of God. Many people are encouraged to avoid being dogmatic, leading some to cherry-pick Scriptures or change their meanings altogether. This practice often involves using the Bible only when its teachings align with personal preferences or the expectations of the audience. Such a liberal view distorts the integrity of God’s Word—if you don’t like it, change it! What use is the Word of God if it can be altered? How can we have faith in truth if truth is seen as variable?

The Word of God is meant to assure us of both God’s nature and our future in Him. If we maintain an open mind to the point of compromising its teachings, we risk dismissing Christ’s promises and missing out on the fullness of what He guarantees. True Christians do not keep an open mind when it comes to God’s Word; you either believe it or you don’t. You cannot sit on the fence. The journey of faith requires a foundation rooted in the unchanging truth of God’s Word.

How many of you would board a plane knowing that the pilot was going to keep an open mind about the destination? Well just as a pilot must navigate their course with precision, they cannot afford to be liberal or selective about the path they choose to reach their destination. Each decision made in the cockpit matters greatly; even small adjustments can have significant consequences for the journey, and so it is with God’s Word. We are invited to align our lives with God’s truth, but this does not mean altering His Word to fit our preferences. His truth remains constant, and our understanding should deepen without compromising Scripture’s principles. Faith demands humility; there is always more to discover in the Bible.

As Paul reminds us in 2 Timothy 1:2, we are called to be faithful to the truth that has been entrusted to us. Our belief in Christ Jesus is our sure foundation—He is the rock upon which we stand and the anchor of hope for our blood-bought souls. Psalm 18:2 describes Him as the everlasting rock for those who fear and esteem Him, a steadfast refuge in times of trouble. There’s nothing wishy-washy about Jesus or His Word. He is the Word made flesh who dwelt among us and our soon-coming King, to whom every knee will bow and confess He is Lord.

Times may change, and people’s views may shift, but God remains the same yesterday, today, and tomorrow. His promises provide a firm foundation amidst a world of uncertainty.

Being open does not mean abandoning core beliefs. Instead, it helps us build a stronger foundation based on God’s eternal Word while remaining teachable. The Bible encourages us to think deeply about Scripture and to stay receptive to what God may reveal each day. This isn’t about changing God’s Word; it’s about allowing it to transform us. Our foundation is solid because it rests on God’s promises and truth.

As James 1:6-8 warns, we should not be double-minded in our faith, for such uncertainty leads to instability. We are called to take every thought captive to obey Christ, as stated in 2 Corinthians 10:5. Faith is not about rigidity; it’s about standing confidently on God’s promises, knowing His Word gives us a firm foundation. While we can be sure of what we believe, we should also allow God to enrich that understanding over time.

Let this balance between a solid foundation and an open heart inspire you today. Stand firm on the rock of God’s Word, knowing that you are both grounded and growing—rooted in unchanging truth yet open to the richness of God’s wisdom and grace as He reveals it, because God Himself backs it up.

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**Excerpt based on Reinhard Bonnke’s book, “Faith: The Link with God’s Power.” / Photo by Pixabay at Pexels

10 Ways God Provides Protection in Ways We May Not Recognise

God’s Unseen Protection

As Christians, we journey through life not just as God’s creation but as His redeemed children. Yet, even as His own, we may feel vulnerable to both visible and invisible challenges. However, whether we realise it or not, our Heavenly Father’s hand is always at work—shielding, guiding, and providing for us in countless ways. His protection may not always be obvious, but it is intricately woven into the fabric of our daily lives.

As those who have been born again into His family, we walk under a divine covering that the world does not have. Here are some powerful ways in which the Lord protects us, even when we fail to recognise it:

1. Divine Delays

There are times when life doesn’t go according to our plans. We miss a train, encounter unexpected delays, or find ourselves rerouted in ways that feel frustrating. These disruptions can actually be God’s way of protecting us. By allowing a delay, He might be keeping us from danger or setting us up to encounter someone or something He intends for us to experience. While we may see delays as setbacks, they can be God’s unseen hand of protection.

2. Unseen Angels and Spiritual Protection

The Bible reminds us that angels are often at work on our behalf, defending us in ways that we cannot see. Hebrews 1:14 refers to angels as “ministering spirits sent to serve those who will inherit salvation.” Whether it’s protection from physical harm or spiritual safeguarding, God sends His angels to guard and guide us. Though we may not see them, these divine beings are continually surrounding us, keeping us safe from dangers we may never be aware of.

3. Inner Promptings or “Gut Feelings”

Have you ever had an unexplained feeling that you should take a different route, speak to a particular person, or avoid a certain place? These inner promptings, often felt as “gut feelings,” can be the Holy Spirit’s gentle way of guiding us. Through these subtle nudges, God may be steering us toward opportunities or away from harm. Recognizing and following these promptings can lead us along paths of safety and blessing.

4. Emotional Resilience in Hard Times

In seasons of suffering or difficulty, we may feel an inner strength or peace that surpasses understanding. This resilience is often a gift from God, shielding our hearts and minds when life becomes overwhelming. When we encounter hard times, God’s protective love can fortify us, giving us the endurance and hope to persevere. This strength may not erase our struggles, but it equips us to bear them.

5. Unexpected Provision

God’s protection is also evident in how He provides for our needs, often just in time and in ways we don’t anticipate. Whether it’s a timely financial gift, a helping hand from a friend, or an unexpected opportunity, these blessings are not random. They are expressions of God’s faithfulness, shielding us from scarcity and reminding us that He is our provider.

6. Protection Through Loving Relationships

The Lord often places people in our lives who act as shields and support systems. Family, friends, mentors, and even acquaintances can serve as instruments of God’s protection. These people encourage us, guide us, or offer help during times of need. Their presence may prevent us from making unwise decisions, offering wisdom and love that protects us from harm.

7. Spiritual Growth Through Trials

While difficult times may seem anything but protective, God often allows trials to refine us. These challenges deepen our faith, strengthen our character, and increase our dependence on Him. Though it may not feel like protection at the time, enduring these trials equips us to handle future challenges with a stronger, more resilient spirit, ultimately protecting us in ways we can only see in hindsight.

8. Redirection and Closed Doors

Sometimes, when our hopes or plans don’t work out, it’s easy to feel frustrated or discouraged. But when certain doors close, it may be God’s way of redirecting us to paths that align more closely with His purpose. What we see as disappointment, God sees as divine redirection—a way of protecting us from choices that don’t serve His greater plan for our lives.

9. Scripture and Wisdom as a Guide

The Bible is a powerful tool for our protection. Through His Word, God provides guidance, discernment, and the wisdom to make choices that lead to peace, wholeness, and well-being. When we root ourselves in Scripture, we are less vulnerable to temptation, poor choices, and harm. God’s Word acts as a lamp to our feet, lighting our path and offering a shield of wisdom.

10. Forgiveness and Mercy

One of the greatest ways God protects us is through forgiveness and grace. Rather than allowing us to be consumed by the consequences of our mistakes, He provides mercy that renews us and offers us a fresh start, when we confess our sins to Him and turn from them. Through His forgiveness, God shields us from guilt and harm, encouraging our spiritual growth rather than allowing us to remain trapped in regret.

Conclusion: Trusting God’s Invisible Hand

God’s protection surrounds us daily, even when it goes unrecognized. By reflecting on these subtle yet profound ways He shields and guides us, we are reminded of His faithful love. Trusting in His invisible hand, we can walk forward with confidence, knowing that He is always at work—seen and unseen—guarding and protecting us.

Prayer of Gratitude

Dear Heavenly Father,

Thank You for Your constant love and protection over my life. Even when I cannot see or understand the ways You shield me, I know that Your hand is always guiding and guarding me. Thank You for the unseen angels You send, for the gentle promptings of Your Spirit, and for every delay and closed door that steers me away from harm.

Lord, I am grateful for the strength and peace You give me during difficult times, and for the people You place in my life who offer support and encouragement. Thank You for Your provision, meeting my needs in ways I could never expect. I’m humbled by Your forgiveness and mercy, which shield me from guilt and give me hope each day.

Help me to trust in Your invisible hand, knowing that You are always working for my good. May I walk with faith, finding comfort in Your love and guidance.

In Jesus’ name, I pray,

Amen.

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*** Photo By Rahul Pandit