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Going From Calling to Confirmation

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Life is often marked by seasons, and just like the natural world transitions from spring to summer to fall and winter, our lives are shaped by different stages of growth, challenge, and fulfillment (Gen 8:22). In the story of Joseph, we see how God uses these different seasons to develop us. 

Each season in Joseph’s life is represented by a coat, which marked a unique purpose and challenge for that time period. Here is what these different “coats” can teach us about God’s work in developing us.

The Four Coats of Joseph’s Journey

1. The Coat of Calling (Genesis 37:3)

When Joseph’s father gifts him a tunic, it marked a season of calling in Joseph’s life, where God began to reveal His plans and purpose. This was a good season—a time when Joseph received dreams from God. These dreams showed him as a leader, with his brothers and even the stars bowing before him.

Similarly, we experience a stage like this when God initially calls us. This coat represents the initial call in your life. It’s the season when God plants the seed of a promise, giving you glimpses of your potential and His plans. However, this season is not without its challenges. For Joseph, the very dreams that inspired him also caused jealousy and hatred among his brothers.

The coat of calling teaches us that the favor of God doesn’t exempt us from trials. Instead, it sets the stage for the growth and testing needed to fulfill the promise.

2. The Coat of Contradiction (Genesis 39:16)

The coat of contradiction came into play when Joseph’s brothers stripped him of his tunic. They dipped it in blood and sold him into slavery, sending him far from the dreams he once had. In Potiphar’s house, Joseph served faithfully, but while he was there, the challenges only grew. Potiphar’s wife falsely accused him of sexual assault and Joseph was thrown into prison.

For many of us, this season represents the times when life seems to contradict the promises of God. Experiencing this season is difficult and confusing. At this point in the story, Joseph’s reality looked nothing like his dreams. He was no longer wearing the coat of calling but was instead enduring betrayal, false accusations, and injustice.

Despite the difficulty of this season, wearing this coat reminds us that the promises of God often lead us through times when our path doesn’t quite make sense to us. In these moments, hold onto the call God gave you, even when circumstances oppose it.

3. The Coat of Confinement (Genesis 41:14)

Further in the story, we see that Joseph is thrown into prison, where he learns to wear the coat of confinement. This was a hellish season filled with isolation and delay. Yet even here, God was with Joseph. The Bible says, “And the Lord was with Joseph and showed him mercy, and He gave him favor in the sight of the keeper of the prison” (Gen 39:21).

In this season, Joseph’s faith was tested deeply. Despite being in prison, he used the gifts that God had given him to serve others. Even though his own dreams seemed forgotten, Joseph chose to serve faithfully.

The coat of confinement represents the times when you feel stuck, waiting for God’s promises to unfold. In this season of preparation, God is working on your character and faith. Remain patient and continue to serve others.

4. The Coat of Confirmation (Genesis 41:42)

Lastly, we see in Joseph’s story that it wasn’t until after he had endured many trials and confusing times that his season finally shifted. The Bible says that Pharaoh called him out of prison, and Joseph’s garments were changed once again. This time, Pharaoh placed a royal garment on him, signifying his rise to leadership. Genesis 41:42 says, “Pharaoh took his signet ring off his hand and put it on Joseph’s hand; and he clothed him in garments of fine linen.”

This coat represents the fulfillment of God’s promises. It is the season of confirmation, where everything God has spoken over your life begins to come to pass. Joseph’s journey became one that fulfilled the dream he had received years prior. In the end, we see that he forgave his brothers, stating, “What you meant for evil, God meant it for good” (Genesis 50:20).

The coat of confirmation reminds us that God’s timing is perfect. The hardships and delays we face are all part of His plan to prepare us for the destiny He has for us.

Final Thoughts

Romans 8:28 says, “And we know that all things work together for good to those who love God, to those who are the called according to His purpose.”

Remember that every season has a purpose. Whatever season you find yourself in, trust that God is at work. He is using every coat, every trial, and every triumph to develop you into the person He has called you to be.

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*** By Vladimir Savchuk at HungryGen / Photo by Keenan Constance at Pexels

Trusting God’s Timing and Faithfulness

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In a world that often values productivity over presence, it’s easy to get caught up in the rush to achieve the next goal or check off the next task. The pressure to keep moving forward can blind us to the beauty and purpose of where we are right now. Yet, there is a sacred invitation in the present moment, a call to slow down, breathe, and trust that God is at work—even when we cannot yet see the full picture.

Finding Joy in the Journey

Life is not a race to the next milestone; it is a journey filled with moments meant to be cherished. Each baby step of progress is a gift, a reminder that growth takes time and patience. There is profound joy in pausing to appreciate the small victories and savoring the simple pleasures of life. Perhaps it’s noticing the intricate beauty of a flower, hearing the laughter of a loved one, or experiencing the quiet peace of prayer. These moments remind us that life is not about capturing every highlight for the world to see but about holding those memories close in our hearts.

The world may tell us to hurry, to strive, and to capture every moment for display, but God calls us to be still, to trust, and to rest in His presence. Psalm 46:10 reminds us, “Be still, and know that I am God.” It is in stillness and trust that we discover the richness of the present moment.

The Faithfulness of Preparation

When we reflect on the life of Jesus, we see a profound example of patience and preparation. Though He was the Son of God, He waited 30 years before stepping into public ministry. During those three decades, He was faithful in the little things—working as a carpenter, living in obedience to His earthly parents, and growing in wisdom and stature (Luke 2:52).

God used those quiet years to prepare Jesus for the extraordinary purpose that lay ahead. In the same way, God often uses the ordinary moments of our lives to shape us for His extraordinary plans. Every task, no matter how small, becomes an opportunity to grow in faith, character, and obedience.

We may not always understand why God asks us to wait or why progress seems slow, but we can trust that He is working all things together for our good (Romans 8:28). His timing is perfect, and His plans are far greater than anything we could imagine. As Ecclesiastes 3:11 says, “He has made everything beautiful in its time.”

Leaning into the Lord

As we journey through life, it is essential to lean into the Lord and allow Him to guide our steps. Proverbs 3:5-6 encourages us to “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to Him, and He will make your paths straight.” Trusting God means letting go of our need to control every outcome and resting in the assurance that He is faithful.

Leaning on God also means embracing the present with gratitude and trust. Instead of rushing through life, we can slow down and take time to seek His presence. In those quiet moments of prayer and reflection, He renews our strength and reminds us of His love.

Living Fully in the Present

To live fully in the moment requires a shift in perspective. It means releasing the need to constantly document or share every experience and instead being present to savor it fully. Not every beautiful flower needs to be photographed; sometimes, it’s enough to simply admire its beauty and let it become a fond memory. Not every milestone needs to be rushed toward; sometimes, it’s enough to trust that God’s timing is perfect.

When we focus too much on what’s next, we risk missing the blessings of today. But when we embrace the present with gratitude and trust, we discover the joy and peace that come from living in alignment with God’s will.

Faithful in the Little Things

As we navigate life, let us remember the example of Jesus. He was faithful in the little things, trusting that God was preparing Him for something greater. In the same way, we are called to be faithful in the small, everyday tasks of life. Whether it’s caring for a loved one, showing kindness to a stranger, or simply taking time to rest in God’s presence, these acts of faithfulness prepare us for the purposes God has for us.

God does not waste any part of our journey. Each moment—whether it feels significant or small—is part of His divine plan. As we trust Him and embrace the present, we can rest in the assurance that He is preparing us for such a time as this (Esther 4:14).

Conclusion

Life is a journey of trust, faithfulness, and presence. It is not about racing to the next task but about walking in step with the Lord, finding joy in the process, and being faithful in the little things. Just as Jesus waited 30 years for His ministry to begin, we too can trust that God’s timing is perfect. He is always at work, preparing us for the plans He has for us.

So, take a moment to pause, to breathe, and to savor the beauty of today. Trust that God is with you, guiding your steps and shaping your journey. Lean into Him, and let Him fill your heart with peace and joy. Life is not about capturing every moment but about living each one fully, knowing that God’s faithfulness never fails.

A Prayer for Living in the Moment and Trusting God’s Timing

Heavenly Father,

Thank You for the gift of today and for the many blessings You surround us with in every moment. Teach us, Lord, to slow down and savor the beauty of Your creation, to find joy in the simple things, and to embrace the journey You have set before us. Help us not to rush ahead or grow impatient, but to trust in Your perfect timing and faithfulness.

Father, we acknowledge that waiting can be hard, but we know that You are always working, even in the unseen. Prepare our hearts for the plans You have for us, and give us the strength to be faithful in the little things, just as Jesus was. Help us to lean into You when we feel uncertain, and remind us that Your love and guidance never fail.

Lord, give us eyes to see the beauty in the present moment, ears to hear Your voice, and hearts that are open to Your leading. Free us from the need to control or strive, and instead fill us with peace and trust in Your ways. Let us walk in step with You, knowing that each step is part of Your greater purpose for our lives.

Thank You, Father, for Your goodness and faithfulness. May we always live with gratitude for the present and hope for the future, resting in the knowledge that You hold all things in Your hands.

In Jesus’ name, we pray, Amen.

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***Photo by Philippe Donn at Pexels

When God Closes a Door: Understanding Divine Redirection

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Life is full of opportunities, but also disappointments. We’ve all experienced moments when a door we wanted to walk through—whether in career, relationships, finances, or ministry—suddenly closes. These closed doors can feel frustrating, confusing, or even painful.

However, God’s closed doors are never without purpose. Throughout the Bible, we see that when God closes a door, it is always for our protection, redirection, or preparation. What seems like a setback is often God’s way of guiding us to something far greater. When we pray for God’s guidance, wisdom and discernment and His will to be done, He hears our prayers and moves accordingly to assist His beloved children.

1. Closed Doors Are a Sign of God’s Guidance

Many people assume that if something is difficult or blocked, it must not be from God. But closed doors are just as much a part of God’s direction as open ones.

In Acts 16:6-10, the Apostle Paul and his companions wanted to preach in Asia and Bithynia, but the Holy Spirit prevented them. It wasn’t because preaching was wrong, but because God had a different plan—He was leading them to Macedonia instead.

Key lesson: When God blocks our path, it’s not rejection; it’s redirection. He may have a different mission, a better opportunity, or a more strategic purpose in mind.

2. Closed Doors Can Be Protection from Harm

Sometimes, we see only what we want, but God sees the full picture. He knows what lies ahead—both good and bad. A closed door might be protecting us from something we cannot see.

A clear example is Noah’s Ark (Genesis 7:16). Before the flood, Noah and his family entered the ark, and the Bible says:

“Then the Lord shut him in.” (Genesis 7:16)

God closed the door, sealing them inside. This wasn’t a punishment—it was protection from the coming storm. Similarly, when God closes a door in our lives, He may be protecting us from a relationship, opportunity, or decision that would bring destruction.

Key lesson: What feels like rejection may actually be divine protection. Trust that God sees what you cannot see.

3. Closed Doors Are an Invitation to Trust God’s Timing

One of the hardest aspects of closed doors is waiting. We often assume that if an opportunity is good, we should have it now. But God’s delays are not His denials.

Take Hannah, for example (1 Samuel 1). She longed for a child, but the Bible says:

“The Lord had closed her womb.” (1 Samuel 1:5-6)

At first, this seemed like an unfair closed door. But in time, Hannah conceived Samuel, one of Israel’s greatest prophets. God wasn’t denying her—He was waiting for the right moment to bless her with a son who would have a lasting impact on Israel’s history.

Key lesson: When God closes a door, He may simply be saying, “Not yet.” His delays are for our good, shaping us for what’s ahead.

4. Closed Doors Help Align Our Hearts with God’s Will

Sometimes, a closed door forces us to re-examine our desires. Are we pursuing something for God’s glory or for our own agenda?

Consider Jonah. God told him to go to Nineveh and preach repentance, but Jonah ran in the opposite direction (Jonah 1:1-3). God closed the door on his escape by sending a storm and a great fish to swallow him. Only after three days in the fish did Jonah finally obey.

God’s closed door (the storm and the fish) forced Jonah to align his heart with God’s purpose.

Key lesson: A closed door can be God’s way of changing our hearts and attitudes to match His plan.

5. When One Door Closes, Another Will Open

A closed door is not the end of the story. Often, when God closes one door, He is already preparing to open another—one that is even better than we imagined.

• David wanted to build the Temple, but God said no (1 Chronicles 17:4). Instead, God allowed Solomon, David’s son, to build it. David’s role was not to construct the temple but to prepare for its future success.

• The foolish virgins in Matthew 25:1-13 found the wedding door closed because they were unprepared. The opportunity had passed. This reminds us to be ready when God opens new doors.

A closed door means God has something else planned—but we must be ready when it comes.

Key lesson: Don’t dwell on the closed door—be ready for the new one that God is preparing.

How Should We Respond to Closed Doors?

1. Seek God in Prayer

Instead of getting frustrated, ask:

✅ “Lord, what are You teaching me through this?”

✅ “Are You protecting me from something?”

✅ “Are You redirecting me to something better?”

2. Trust in God’s Plan and Timing

• Isaiah 55:8-9 – “For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways,” declares the Lord.

• Just because we don’t understand doesn’t mean God isn’t working for our good.

3. Keep Moving Forward in Faith

• Paul didn’t stop moving when he was blocked—he kept seeking God’s next step (Acts 16).

• When a door closes, don’t sit still. Keep walking in faith, obedience, and expectation.

Trusting the God of Closed Doors

A closed door is not rejection; it is redirection. It may be God’s way of:

✔ Guiding you to a better plan.

✔ Protecting you from unseen danger.

✔ Aligning your heart with His will.

✔ Preparing you for something greater.

If you’re facing a closed door today, don’t lose heart. Trust that God is working behind the scenes for your good. Instead of focusing on what didn’t happen, start looking for the new doors He is about to open.

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** Photo by Tim Mossholder at Pexels

Have Patience With Me

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“With all humility and gentleness, with patience, bearing with one another in love” Ephesians 4:2

“Have patience with me,” cried the slave as he begged his fellow-slave for mercy (Matt.18:29). This is also the unspoken cry that comes to us as housewives and mothers from many of those with whom we have to do each day. But we need to be sensitive in our spirits if we are to hear that cry – for it is unspoken. It may be that our children are slow at learning something that we have repeatedly been trying to teach them, and we are sorely tempted to become impatient with them. If we could hear their unspoken cry, saying, “Have patience with me, I am trying my best to do it right,” then it would be easier for us to overcome the temptation to get irritated with them.

Perhaps the servant who helps us with our work around the home is somewhat clumsy, and not as clean as we want her to be, and we are tempted to be hard on her. But her unspoken cry is, “Have patience with me. Give me another chance and I’ll improve” – and we are presented with another opportunity to be more gentle. Or it may be that our aged parents, being old and infirm, are now dependent on us. Their feeble, unspoken cry is also, “Have patience with me. I don’t want to trouble you, but I need your help now.” If we are sensitive to their feelings, we will hear their cry and help them, without depriving them of their dignity, and without letting them feel their dependence.

Perhaps the behaviour of our fellow-sisters in the church is a trial for us. Their unspoken cry is also, “Have patience with me. I still lack a lot of wisdom.” Then we realise that they also, like us, are struggling towards perfection.In such situations, we all find a tendency in our flesh to be like that unmerciful slave. Yet those are the very times when we need to remember afresh how much we have been forgiven by God, and how patient others have been with our own follies. So we should have our spiritual ears attuned at all times to hear the cry for patience that comes to us from our fellow-slaves – both young and old. Let patience have its perfect work, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking nothing. (James 1:4).

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