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If Jesus Came to Your House

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Jesus told us in Matthew 5:14 – “You are the light of the world. A town built on a hill cannot be hidden.”

…and then went on in verse 16 – Matthew 5:16 – “In the same way, let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in Heaven.”

So, we ask you… is the life you are living representative of how our Lord taught you the live? Are you expressing kindness, compassion and humility in your everyday life… and loving your neighbor as He loved us?

Sure, we understand the things that you may do: the books or magazines you read, the music you listen to and the television or movies you may watch seem okay to you but what are you saying, by your actions, to those around you?

A poetess by the name of Lois Blanchard Eades, from Dickson, Tennessee, wrote a poem that we think you all should read. How would you honestly answer the questions she poses.

If Jesus Came to Your House

If Jesus came to your house, to spend a day or two –
If He came unexpectedly, I wonder what you’d do.
Oh, I know you’d give your nicest room to such an honored Guest,
And all the food you’d serve to Him would be the very best,
And you would keep assuring Him you’re glad to have him there –
That serving Him in your own home is joy beyond compare. 

But when you saw Him coming, would you meet Him at the door
With arms outstretched in welcome, to your heavenly Visitor?
Or would you have to change your clothes before you let Him in?
Or hide some magazines, and put the Bible where they’d been?
Would you turn off the radio and hope He hadn’t heard?
And wish you hadn’t uttered that last, loud, hasty word?

hiding the bad things

Would you hide your worldly music & put some hymn books out?
Could you let Jesus walk right in, or would you rush about?
And I wonder – if the Savior spent a day or two with you,
Would you go right on doing, the things you always do?
Would you go right on saying the things you always say?
Would life for you continue as it does from day to day?

crazy music

Would your family conversation keep up its usual pace?
And would your find it hard each meal to say a table grace?
Would you sing the songs you always sing, and read the books you read,
And let Him know the things, on which your mind and spirit feed?
Would you take Jesus with you, everywhere you’d planned to go?
Or would you, maybe, change your plans for just a day or so? 

family dinner

Would you be glad to have Him meet your very closest friends?
Or would you hope they’d stay away, until His visit ends?
Would you be glad to have Him stay forever on and on?
Or would you sigh with great relief when He at last was gone?
It might be interesting to know the things that you would do
If Jesus Christ in person came to spend some time with you.

saying goodbye

Thank you for the poem Lois, it really does make a good point. As Brothers and Sisters in Christ, it is our responsibility to live our lives the way He taught us to live. Each and every day, we should be focused on what is good; what is right; what can bring glory to God.

Let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in Heaven.

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** Poem By Lois Blanchard Eades and article by Sunrise Chapel Church / Photo by George Becker

10 Life-Changing Biblical Stories: How God Sees Us Differently and Has a Purpose for Our Lives

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“You were born for such a time as this” – Esther 4:14

The Bible is full of stories that remind us God sees us in a much better, deeper way than we usually see ourselves. Time and time again, ordinary people were chosen by God for extraordinary tasks, not because of their status, past, or qualifications, but because of God’s purpose and the potential He saw in them. These stories remind us that our circumstances, mistakes, and insecurities do not disqualify us from fulfilling the purpose God has for our lives. Here, we dive deeper into 10 powerful biblical stories that can inspire, empower, and encourage you to trust in God’s higher vision for you, and if He has called you, He will empower you and give you the grace to fulfil His purpose and plan for your life.

1. Gideon – “Mighty Man of Valor” (Judges 6:11-16)

When we first meet Gideon, he’s hiding in a winepress, threshing wheat, hoping to escape the oppression of the Midianites. His family is poor, and his tribe is the least of Israel’s clans. Gideon sees himself as insignificant, weak, and unworthy. Yet, God’s message to him is completely different: “The Lord is with you, mighty warrior.” Gideon questions this, not understanding how he, someone so small and insignificant, could be used by God. But God’s call remains firm.

What God Sees: God sees not just Gideon as he is in the moment, but what he can become. God doesn’t measure us by our present circumstances, but by our potential. When God calls Gideon, He is calling forth a mighty leader capable of doing what no one else could do at that moment. He sees the courage Gideon cannot yet see in himself.

Empowering Truth: If God has called you, He has already seen your potential. No matter how small you feel or how limited your resources may seem, when God’s hand is upon you, nothing can stand in your way. Don’t measure your worth by your circumstances or your self-doubt. God has declared you mighty for a reason. Step into that truth with confidence.

2. Moses – A “Broken” Deliverer (Exodus 3:10-12; 4:10-12)

Moses was a man marked by a broken past. He grew up in Pharaoh’s palace but fled Egypt after committing murder. For 40 years, he lived in exile, hiding his failure, living in obscurity as a shepherd in the wilderness. When God appeared to him through the burning bush, Moses was reluctant, pointing to his inadequacies—his lack of eloquence, his fears, his past. But God saw something else entirely.

What God Sees: God saw Moses as the leader He had been preparing for years, even when Moses couldn’t see it himself. The wilderness years were not wasted; they were training ground. God used Moses’ brokenness, his struggles, and his weaknesses as a way to show His power. God didn’t call Moses because he was already equipped, but because God had plans to equip him.

Empowering Truth: Your brokenness is not a barrier to God’s calling—it is a canvas for His glory. If God can use a man with a past like Moses, He can certainly use you. Don’t be afraid to step into God’s call, even when you feel inadequate or unworthy. God uses the weak to display His strength. Trust that God has been preparing you in ways you cannot yet see.

3. Joseph – From Rejection to Ruler (Genesis 37:5-11; 50:20)

Joseph’s story is a testament to the idea that God’s plan for our lives cannot be thwarted by betrayal, suffering, or delay. Joseph was thrown into a pit by his brothers, sold into slavery, falsely accused, and thrown into prison. Yet, through it all, God was orchestrating every step. Joseph rose from the depths of despair to become the second-in-command in Egypt, saving not only his family but the entire nation from famine.

What God Sees: God sees the bigger picture. Joseph could not have known how his trials would lead to a position of power that would save lives. What seemed like setbacks were setups for something far greater. God’s purpose for your life may not always be clear in the moment, but every hardship is a piece of the puzzle of your destiny.

Empowering Truth: When life feels like it’s falling apart, remember that God is still in control. Joseph’s journey proves that no matter how bleak your circumstances, God’s plan is still at work behind the scenes. Trust that your struggles will eventually lead to breakthroughs. Your pain has a purpose. The dream God has placed in you will come to pass, no matter the obstacles.

4. David – The Least of His Brothers (1 Samuel 16:6-13)

David was an unlikely king. When the prophet Samuel came to anoint a new king, David’s own father didn’t even consider him worthy of being in the lineup. He was just a shepherd boy, left in the fields while his brothers were paraded before Samuel. Yet, God saw in David something his family overlooked: a man after His own heart.

What God Sees: God sees potential, not performance. David was not chosen because he had the qualifications on paper, but because of his heart. David’s time in the fields with the sheep developed a heart of worship, courage, and dependence on God. He was being shaped into a man of integrity and faithfulness—qualities that would make him a great king.

Empowering Truth: Don’t allow others’ opinions to define you. God sees beyond the surface; He sees the heart. You may feel overlooked or unqualified, but remember that God has placed greatness within you, the Holy Spirit. Like David, your time of preparation, though it may seem insignificant, is shaping you for the greatness He has in store.

5. The Apostle Paul – Persecutor to Apostle (Acts 9:1-19)

Paul’s life is one of radical transformation. Once known as Saul, a man bent on destroying the early church, he encountered Jesus on the road to Damascus and his life was never the same. Saul went from being a zealous persecutor of Christians to becoming the Apostle Paul, one of the greatest church planters and writers in history.

What God Sees: God saw Paul’s potential not as a murderer but as a passionate preacher for the gospel. Saul’s zeal and commitment, when redirected toward Christ, made him an unstoppable force. God looked at Saul and saw the power of a changed life, fully surrendered to His will.

Empowering Truth: No one is beyond redemption. If God can take a violent persecutor of His people and turn him into one of His greatest servants, there is no limit to what He can do with your life. Your past does not define your future—God’s grace does. Whatever you’ve done or been through, God can use it for His glory.

6. Rahab – A Prostitute to Ancestor of Jesus (Joshua 2:1-21; Matthew 1:5)

Rahab was a woman living in sin, a prostitute in the city of Jericho. Yet, when the Israelite spies came to her, she showed faith in the God of Israel, risking her life to protect them. Her actions led to the salvation of her family, and she became a part of the lineage of Jesus Christ.

What God Sees: God saw a woman who, despite her past, was willing to step into faith and protect His people. Rahab’s story shows that God can take anyone, regardless of their past, and make them a part of His redemptive plan. God doesn’t define us by our mistakes, but by our faith in Him.

Empowering Truth: No matter what you’ve done or where you’ve been, God’s grace is greater. Rahab’s inclusion in the genealogy of Jesus is a powerful reminder that God uses anyone who is willing to trust Him. If you’ve been labeled by your past, know that God has a better identity for you. Your faith is what matters most in His kingdom.

7. Mary – The Faithful Handmaiden (Luke 1:26-38)

Mary was a young woman, betrothed but not yet married. When the angel appeared to her, telling her she would conceive the Messiah, it was a scandalous and dangerous message. Yet, Mary’s response was one of total submission to God’s will: “Behold the handmaiden of the Lord; Be it unto me according to your word.”

What God Sees: God saw Mary’s humble heart and unwavering faith. She was willing to carry the weight of the world, despite the risk of rejection, shame, and even death. God didn’t choose Mary because of her social status or influence, but because of her obedience and willingness to trust in His plan.

Empowering Truth: When God calls you, it often requires great courage and faith. Like Mary, you may face challenges and opposition, but trusting in God’s plan will lead you to His greatest purpose for your life. Your obedience to Him, even in the face of difficulty, will bring about extraordinary results.

8. Esther – From Exile to Queen (Esther 4:12-16)

Esther was an orphan, raised by her cousin Mordecai, and yet she found herself in the royal palace of Persia. When her people faced annihilation, Esther was in the unique position to make a difference. But stepping forward meant risking her life. Yet, she said, “If I perish, I perish.” Her courage saved an entire nation.

What God Sees: God placed Esther in that royal position “for such a time as this.” She was exactly where God needed her to be, even though she could not have known it at the time. God’s timing is always perfect, and He orchestrates events to place us in the right place at the right time.

Empowering Truth: Your life has purpose, even when it seems like you are just going through the motions. You may be in a situation where it feels like there’s no way out, but remember that God can use your position, your influence, and your courage to make a difference in ways you may not even understand. Trust in His timing.

9. Peter – From Denial to Leader (Luke 22:61-62; John 21:15-19)

Peter, one of Jesus’ closest disciples, denied Him three times during His trial. His failure was heartbreaking, and he was devastated. Yet, Jesus didn’t cast Peter aside. Instead, He restored him, asking three times, “Do you love me?” He then commissioned Peter to care for His flock.

What God Sees: Jesus saw Peter not for his failure but for his potential as a leader. Peter’s denial was a humbling experience that allowed him to grow in understanding of God’s grace. Jesus’ forgiveness and restoration enabled Peter to become one of the most influential leaders in the early church.

Empowering Truth: Failure is never final. Like Peter, you may have stumbled, but God’s grace offers restoration and a fresh start. God is not finished with you because of your mistakes. His plans for you are still in motion. Embrace His forgiveness and rise to fulfill the calling He has placed on your life.

10. Joshua – From Servant to Conqueror (Joshua 1:1-9)

Joshua, who had been Moses’ assistant, was now tasked with leading Israel into the Promised Land. The responsibility was immense, and the challenges were daunting. But God reassured Joshua that He would be with him every step of the way, commanding him to be strong and courageous.

What God Sees: God saw in Joshua the strength and leadership needed to lead Israel. Joshua had served faithfully under Moses, learning the ways of leadership and trusting in God. Now it was his time to step into his destiny. God’s call on Joshua was not about his current position, but his readiness to step forward in faith.

Empowering Truth: No matter how overwhelming the task ahead may seem, trust that God has prepared you for it. Like Joshua, you have been equipped for the challenges before you. Take courage—God is with you, and He will lead you into victory. You are more capable than you realize.

You Are Chosen

Each of these stories serves as a reminder that God doesn’t look at us the way the world does. He sees the potential, the heart, and the purpose He has placed within us from the beginning. No matter your circumstances, background, or mistakes, you are chosen for greatness in God’s kingdom. Let these biblical figures inspire and empower you to trust in God’s vision for your life, knowing that His plan is always greater than anything you can imagine. Step into your calling with confidence, for the God who calls you is the One who equips you and empowers you for the journey ahead.

God’s Plan is Always Bigger Than Our Present Reality

We often measure ourselves by our current struggles, limitations, and circumstances. However, as seen in the lives of these biblical figures, God’s plan is always much bigger than we can see in the moment. Whether you are facing the hardship of feeling unqualified like Gideon, struggling with past mistakes like Moses or Paul, or even navigating the overwhelming pressures of leadership like Joshua and Esther, remember that God is using every step of your journey to prepare you for His greater purpose.

God doesn’t call the equipped; He equips the called. Each trial, each failure, and each success has a role to play in God’s unfolding plan for your life. Trust that where you are now is part of your preparation, not your final destination. Your greatest moments of faith may come when you feel the least prepared, just as God called Mary to carry the Savior of the world at a time when it could have cost her everything. But her faith, and her willingness to trust God’s plan, changed the course of history.

Your Purpose is Secure in God’s Hands

You are not defined by your mistakes, your fears, or even your success in the eyes of the world. Your purpose is secure in God’s hands, and He has been preparing you for your role in His story since the beginning of time. Each of these biblical heroes faced incredible challenges, yet their obedience and faith in God’s calling led them to victory, transformation, and legacy.

The story of Joseph is a powerful reminder that while we may not understand the purpose of our struggles, God uses them to shape our character and fulfill His promises. Just as Joseph’s path led him from betrayal and hardship to ultimate triumph and restoration, so too can our trials lead to greater purpose. Every step of your journey, whether smooth or rocky, is a part of the intricate plan God has for you.

Stand Firm in Faith

No matter what you are facing today, remember that God sees you differently than you see yourself. You are more than your circumstances. You are more than your failures. Just like God saw the potential in Moses, Joseph, David, and Mary, He sees you as someone capable of fulfilling the incredible plans He has for you. The same God who called these ordinary people to extraordinary things is calling you.

Step forward in faith, courage, and obedience, trusting that God is with you every step of the way. You are not alone on this journey. As He said to Joshua, “Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go” (Joshua 1:9).

Your story is still being written, and God has amazing plans ahead for you. Trust in Him, knowing that with every challenge, there is a purpose, and with every step of faith, you are moving closer to the fulfillment of His calling on your life.

Conclusion: You Are God’s Masterpiece

You are uniquely created, deeply loved, and chosen for a divine purpose that only you can fulfill. The stories of these biblical figures teach us that God has never been limited by our weaknesses, failures, or doubts. He sees the potential, and with His strength, we can overcome anything. Embrace your identity in Christ, step boldly into the future He has prepared for you, and trust that His plans are good.

Remember, God’s call on your life is not dependent on your past or current circumstances. You are His masterpiece, created for a purpose far greater than you can even imagine. Walk in the confidence that you are chosen, loved, and equipped by the Creator of the universe for an incredible purpose that will impact the world for His glory.

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Related post: Overcoming The Imposter Syndrome

** Photo by Hanuman Photo Studio at Pexels

Trusting God’s Timing and Faithfulness

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In a world that often values productivity over presence, it’s easy to get caught up in the rush to achieve the next goal or check off the next task. The pressure to keep moving forward can blind us to the beauty and purpose of where we are right now. Yet, there is a sacred invitation in the present moment, a call to slow down, breathe, and trust that God is at work—even when we cannot yet see the full picture.

Finding Joy in the Journey

Life is not a race to the next milestone; it is a journey filled with moments meant to be cherished. Each baby step of progress is a gift, a reminder that growth takes time and patience. There is profound joy in pausing to appreciate the small victories and savoring the simple pleasures of life. Perhaps it’s noticing the intricate beauty of a flower, hearing the laughter of a loved one, or experiencing the quiet peace of prayer. These moments remind us that life is not about capturing every highlight for the world to see but about holding those memories close in our hearts.

The world may tell us to hurry, to strive, and to capture every moment for display, but God calls us to be still, to trust, and to rest in His presence. Psalm 46:10 reminds us, “Be still, and know that I am God.” It is in stillness and trust that we discover the richness of the present moment.

The Faithfulness of Preparation

When we reflect on the life of Jesus, we see a profound example of patience and preparation. Though He was the Son of God, He waited 30 years before stepping into public ministry. During those three decades, He was faithful in the little things—working as a carpenter, living in obedience to His earthly parents, and growing in wisdom and stature (Luke 2:52).

God used those quiet years to prepare Jesus for the extraordinary purpose that lay ahead. In the same way, God often uses the ordinary moments of our lives to shape us for His extraordinary plans. Every task, no matter how small, becomes an opportunity to grow in faith, character, and obedience.

We may not always understand why God asks us to wait or why progress seems slow, but we can trust that He is working all things together for our good (Romans 8:28). His timing is perfect, and His plans are far greater than anything we could imagine. As Ecclesiastes 3:11 says, “He has made everything beautiful in its time.”

Leaning into the Lord

As we journey through life, it is essential to lean into the Lord and allow Him to guide our steps. Proverbs 3:5-6 encourages us to “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to Him, and He will make your paths straight.” Trusting God means letting go of our need to control every outcome and resting in the assurance that He is faithful.

Leaning on God also means embracing the present with gratitude and trust. Instead of rushing through life, we can slow down and take time to seek His presence. In those quiet moments of prayer and reflection, He renews our strength and reminds us of His love.

Living Fully in the Present

To live fully in the moment requires a shift in perspective. It means releasing the need to constantly document or share every experience and instead being present to savor it fully. Not every beautiful flower needs to be photographed; sometimes, it’s enough to simply admire its beauty and let it become a fond memory. Not every milestone needs to be rushed toward; sometimes, it’s enough to trust that God’s timing is perfect.

When we focus too much on what’s next, we risk missing the blessings of today. But when we embrace the present with gratitude and trust, we discover the joy and peace that come from living in alignment with God’s will.

Faithful in the Little Things

As we navigate life, let us remember the example of Jesus. He was faithful in the little things, trusting that God was preparing Him for something greater. In the same way, we are called to be faithful in the small, everyday tasks of life. Whether it’s caring for a loved one, showing kindness to a stranger, or simply taking time to rest in God’s presence, these acts of faithfulness prepare us for the purposes God has for us.

God does not waste any part of our journey. Each moment—whether it feels significant or small—is part of His divine plan. As we trust Him and embrace the present, we can rest in the assurance that He is preparing us for such a time as this (Esther 4:14).

Conclusion

Life is a journey of trust, faithfulness, and presence. It is not about racing to the next task but about walking in step with the Lord, finding joy in the process, and being faithful in the little things. Just as Jesus waited 30 years for His ministry to begin, we too can trust that God’s timing is perfect. He is always at work, preparing us for the plans He has for us.

So, take a moment to pause, to breathe, and to savor the beauty of today. Trust that God is with you, guiding your steps and shaping your journey. Lean into Him, and let Him fill your heart with peace and joy. Life is not about capturing every moment but about living each one fully, knowing that God’s faithfulness never fails.

A Prayer for Living in the Moment and Trusting God’s Timing

Heavenly Father,

Thank You for the gift of today and for the many blessings You surround us with in every moment. Teach us, Lord, to slow down and savor the beauty of Your creation, to find joy in the simple things, and to embrace the journey You have set before us. Help us not to rush ahead or grow impatient, but to trust in Your perfect timing and faithfulness.

Father, we acknowledge that waiting can be hard, but we know that You are always working, even in the unseen. Prepare our hearts for the plans You have for us, and give us the strength to be faithful in the little things, just as Jesus was. Help us to lean into You when we feel uncertain, and remind us that Your love and guidance never fail.

Lord, give us eyes to see the beauty in the present moment, ears to hear Your voice, and hearts that are open to Your leading. Free us from the need to control or strive, and instead fill us with peace and trust in Your ways. Let us walk in step with You, knowing that each step is part of Your greater purpose for our lives.

Thank You, Father, for Your goodness and faithfulness. May we always live with gratitude for the present and hope for the future, resting in the knowledge that You hold all things in Your hands.

In Jesus’ name, we pray, Amen.

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***Photo by Philippe Donn at Pexels

Marriage: A God-Ordained Ministry, Not a Fairy Tale

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Marriage is one of the most sacred and beautiful institutions created by God. It’s a relationship designed to reflect the love, commitment, and sacrifice seen in Christ’s relationship with the Church. However, marriage is not a fairy tale. It’s not about living in perpetual romance or expecting your spouse to fulfill all your emotional and spiritual needs. Marriage is about partnership, service, and walking through life together, supporting and loving each other.

1. Understanding What Marriage Really Is

Marriage isn’t a quick fix for personal issues, loneliness or dissatisfaction with life. It’s not about having a partner who will complete you in every sense. Only God can truly meet your deepest needs. This is one of the most crucial things to understand before stepping into marriage: a spouse is not your Savior. A healthy marriage doesn’t hinge on the idea that one person will make the other happy all the time. That’s an unrealistic burden to place on any human being, and it’s an unfair expectation to have of your spouse.

Marriage is about coming together to fulfill God’s purposes. It’s a partnership where both people are called to love, serve, and support each other, and above all, serve God. The Bible teaches that marriage is a reflection of Christ’s relationship with the Church (Ephesians 5:32). The goal is not personal happiness alone, but to glorify God through your relationship, sharing love, sacrifice, and growth together.

2. Marriage as a Ministry

In a biblical sense, ministry is about serving others to fulfill God’s plan. While the Bible doesn’t explicitly call marriage “ministry,” the concept is deeply embedded in its teachings. Marriage is God-ordained and meant to reflect His love and purposes. Both the husband and wife are called to serve one another and, in doing so, serve God’s kingdom.

Ephesians 5:25-33 compares the relationship between husband and wife to Christ’s love for the Church. Husbands are called to love their wives sacrificially, just as Christ loved the Church, while wives are called to respect and support their husbands. This mutual relationship shows that marriage is about serving one another, loving and honoring each other, and, ultimately, serving God.

Genesis 2:18 tells us that God created the woman to be a “helper” to the man. This does not suggest inferiority or subordination, but rather highlights a complementary role in which both spouses help, support, and serve each other. In this partnership, the wife is called to respect and submit to her husband’s leadership as he fulfills his God-given role (Ephesians 5:22-24), while the husband is called to lead her with selfless, sacrificial love (Ephesians 5:25-28). This mutual service and submission are not about dominance or control, but about working together to fulfill God’s purposes for their lives.

This makes marriage a ministry in the sense that both partners are working together to glorify God, reflect Christ’s love for the Church, and serve His kingdom. As both the husband and wife live out their roles in love, sacrifice, and respect, their relationship becomes a living testimony of God’s love and His redemptive work.

3. Coming into Marriage Emotionally and Spiritually Ready

Marriage is not the place to look for emotional fulfillment, healing from past wounds, or validation. While a spouse can provide support and encouragement, your primary source of identity and fulfillment must come from God. Before entering marriage, it’s important to be emotionally and spiritually secure in your relationship with God.

This doesn’t mean you have to be perfect, but it does mean you should be actively working on your relationship with God and striving for emotional maturity. Marriage isn’t about finding someone to “fix” you—it’s about two individuals, each grounded in Christ, coming together to serve one another and fulfill God’s purposes.

Practical Tip: Before entering into marriage, invest in your relationship with God. Spend time in prayer, study the Bible, and work on emotional maturity. Cultivate good habits for communication and conflict resolution. Be prepared to bring your best self into the relationship, knowing that your fulfillment ultimately comes from God.

4. The Reality of Roles and Expectations: Talking It Out

Before marriage, it’s crucial to have honest, open conversations about what you both expect in marriage. This goes beyond just the fun stuff like vacations and date nights—it involves discussing practical matters like finances, work, children, and household roles. Understanding each other’s expectations will help prevent misunderstandings later.

One area where many couples face tension is around roles in marriage, especially when it comes to work. Some men may want their wives to stay at home, while others may expect their wives to continue their careers. There’s no one-size-fits-all answer here. The key is clear communication and mutual respect.

If the wife wants to work but the husband prefers that she stays home, it’s important to have a respectful conversation about each person’s desires, financial needs, and long-term goals. The goal is to come to an understanding and make decisions together, ensuring that both spouses are happy and fulfilling their roles as partners in ministry.

Practical Tip: Before marriage, talk about your roles and expectations. Discuss finances, career goals, children, and household responsibilities. Clear communication will help prevent surprises and set you up for a healthy, cooperative partnership.

5. The Gift of Singleness vs. Marriage

It’s essential to recognize that both singleness and marriage are gifts from God. 1 Corinthians 7 teaches that some are called to singleness, which offers a unique opportunity to serve God without the responsibilities of marriage. But for others, marriage is God’s calling, and it provides the chance to glorify Him through companionship and mutual service.

You shouldn’t rush into marriage thinking it will fix loneliness or make you feel fulfilled in ways that are better left to God. Similarly, singles shouldn’t feel incomplete or less than because they’re not married. God has a perfect plan for everyone, whether that’s a season of singleness or a lifelong marriage.

Practical Tip: Embrace your current season, whether married or single. Trust that God has a purpose for you and will use either marriage or singleness to shape you and fulfill His plan.

6. Marriage: A Lifelong Journey of Service

Marriage is not just about personal happiness. It’s about serving one another and fulfilling God’s kingdom purposes together. This means that marriage involves sacrifice, service, and ministry. It’s not just about what you can get from the relationship, but what you can give. As a husband or wife, you’re called to love and serve your spouse selflessly, just as Christ loved the Church.

In marriage, both the husband and wife are helpers to each other (Genesis 2:18), fulfilling complementary roles that reflect God’s design. Marriage is meant to be a team effort, where both partners are committed to each other and to serving God together.

Practical Tip: Keep God at the center of your marriage. Your relationship is not just about you and your spouse—it’s about glorifying God. Look for ways to serve each other, pray together, and use your marriage as a platform to minister to others.

How God Prepares a Woman to Be a Godly Wife

Many women desire to be a godly wife to a godly man, but what does that actually mean? How does God prepare a woman for marriage in a way that aligns with His will? The truth is, preparation isn’t just about finding the right man—it’s about becoming the right woman. Before God entrusts someone with a marriage, He often takes them through a season of growth, refinement, and preparation.

Here are some key ways God prepares a woman to be a godly wife:

1. Strengthening Her Relationship with Him First

Before marriage, a woman’s first priority should be her relationship with God. A strong marriage requires a foundation in Christ, and that begins long before saying, “I do.”

Matthew 6:33 says, “But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.” God teaches a woman to depend on Him first, so she doesn’t expect a husband to fill a role only God can.

This season of preparation is about learning to trust, listen, and obey God, which will later help her support and encourage her husband spiritually.

2. Developing Her Character and Heart

Marriage is not just about romance—it’s about selflessness, patience, and grace. A woman who desires to be a godly wife must first allow God to shape her heart.

Proverbs 31:10-12 describes a virtuous woman as someone who brings good to her husband all the days of her life—not just after marriage. God often refines a woman’s patience, humility, and kindness through everyday life experiences, relationships, and even trials.

If a woman struggles with pride, impatience, or resentment, marriage will only magnify those issues. God prepares her by teaching her how to love, serve, and forgive before she ever steps into marriage.

3. Healing from Past Wounds and Finding Wholeness in Christ

Many people enter relationships hoping their partner will “fix” them or make them feel whole. But true wholeness comes from Christ, not a spouse.

Psalm 147:3 says, “He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds.” If a woman has past wounds from relationships, family struggles, or insecurities, God may take her through a healing process before leading her into marriage.

This might involve letting go of past hurts, setting healthy boundaries, and learning to see herself through God’s eyes. A healthy marriage is built on two whole individuals, not two broken people looking for completion in each other.

4. Teaching Her Wisdom and Discernment

Not every relationship is from God, and not every man is a godly man. A woman must learn to recognize the difference between a relationship that aligns with God’s will and one that only serves temporary desires.

Proverbs 4:7 says, “Wisdom is the principal thing; therefore get wisdom: and with all thy getting get understanding.” God often teaches discernment through past experiences, the guidance of His Word, and wise counsel from mentors or spiritual leaders.

This preparation helps her recognize a man who genuinely seeks after God rather than one who just plays the part.

5. Growing in Her Purpose and Calling

A woman is not just called to be a wife—she has her own God-given purpose. Before marriage, God may lead her to grow in her personal calling, whether that’s in ministry, career, or serving others.

Jeremiah 29:11 reminds us that God has a plan for each of us, even before marriage. A woman who walks confidently in her calling is more prepared to complement and support her future husband in his calling.

Marriage is about two people serving God together, not one person losing themselves in the other.

6. Learning the Skills Needed for a Godly Marriage

While love is important, practical skills are just as necessary for a strong marriage. God may prepare a woman by teaching her:

Communication skills – Knowing how to express thoughts and feelings in a way that builds, not breaks. Conflict resolution – Learning how to handle disagreements with grace and patience. Serving with love – A godly wife serves her family, not out of obligation, but out of love (Mark 10:45). Financial wisdom – Managing resources wisely to build a strong household (Proverbs 31:16-18).

These skills can be developed in everyday life, long before marriage, through friendships, work, and church involvement.

7. Trusting in God’s Timing

Perhaps the hardest part of preparation is waiting. Many women wonder, “When will it be my turn?” But God’s timing is always perfect.

Ecclesiastes 3:11 says, “He has made everything beautiful in its time.” Rushing into marriage out of impatience can lead to heartache, while waiting on God ensures His best.

In this waiting season, God teaches a woman to trust Him fully, finding joy and contentment in the present rather than worrying about the future.

Final Thoughts

Being prepared for marriage isn’t just about waiting for the right man—it’s about becoming the right woman. God’s process of preparation isn’t always easy, but it’s always purposeful. He strengthens faith, builds character, brings healing, teaches wisdom, and aligns a woman’s heart with His.

If marriage is in His plan, He will bring the right person at the right time. Until then, the best thing any woman can do is grow in her relationship with God, embrace the season she’s in, and trust that His plan is always better than her own.

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** Photo by Jonathan Borba at Pexels

7 Signs God May Be Testing You

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“Beloved, do not think it strange concerning the fiery trial which is to try you, as though some strange thing happened to you; but rejoice to the extent that you partake of Christ’s sufferings, that when His glory is revealed, you may also be glad with exceeding joy.” ~ 1 Peter 4:12-19 NKJV

Often times, as born again believers we face difficult situations and wonder if there are deeper reasons for that trial. The Bible teaches that there are certain instances where God uses a circumstance to test us and our hearts. Here are seven signs that God is testing you, with each one serving to reveal, refine, and strengthen your faith.

Seven Signs God May Be Testing You

1. Unusual Delays

When God allows for unusual delays, it’s a test. We see this in the example of Abraham. The testing of Abraham was used to refine his trust and patience in God (Genesis 21:1-3).

Often, unusual delays may show that the test is from God. These sorts of tests reveal things in our hearts and refine our character, perfecting our patience. Ultimately, the lessons learned in these seasons are things that no other season in our lives would show us.

2. Facing Impossible Situations

Secondly, another tell-tale sign is when you’re facing impossible situations. We see in the Bible that God tested Moses and the Israelites by allowing them to face the Red Sea and fear the reality of Pharaoh behind them (Exodus 14:13-14).

If you’re facing an impossible situation, God is not trying to drown you or destroy you. He is testing you. Your fear and doubt may come to the surface during those times, but God desires to bring it up to remove it from within you.

3. Struggles with Provision

Next, when you struggle with provision, you might be tested by God.

It’s easy sometimes for those of us in a spiritual warfare camp to shift blame always on the devil, especially when experiencing financial issues. But sometimes, the Lord might be testing us, just as He did with Israel when they faced lack in the promised land (Deuteronomy 8:3).

God wasn’t attacking them but was revealing, refining, training, and perfecting them. He did provide for them, but He also wanted to perfect them. God is not just interested in providing for you. He’s interested in perfecting you.

4. Trials of Suffering

Another important thing to remember is that trials of suffering often mean experiencing loss and hardship. For instance, in Scripture we see that Job experienced intense suffering, loss, and hardship. During his suffering, we see that Job worshipped even in his grief (Job 1:20-21). He didn’t have answers but chose to trust.

If you’re experiencing this sort of test, it’s important to remember that the way trust in God is expressed is through worship. Life on earth is really a series of losses. Grasping that reality can help you get through trials, knowing life is temporary, and eternal life is what really matters.

5. Temptations to Compromise

Next, when you’re facing temptations to compromise, it’s a test.

Daniel was tested to see if he would conform to Babylonian customs (Daniel 6:10). In the same way, God may test your integrity and obedience to His word in situations where obeying Him might cost you. In temptation, the enemy entices you to sin, but God reveals what’s in your heart, refines your character, perfects your godliness, and trains you in righteousness.

6. Opportunity to Help Others

When you have the opportunity to help others despite being in hardship, it’s a test.

In scripture, we see that Joseph, despite his own hardships, was faithful in serving others (Genesis 39:4-5). Often, God tests our willingness to serve and bless others, even in difficult situations. Joseph, even while imprisoned, served his fellow prisoners and interpreted their dreams.

It’s a test: Will you show up and help others when you’re struggling? Remember, you’re not giving out of your lack but from what Jesus has given you.

7. Silence from God

Lastly, experiencing silence from God can be a test.

Jesus was tested in the wilderness during a period of isolation and silence, with only the voices of Satan. Sometimes, when God is “silent,” it’s because the test is in progress (Matthew 4:1-2).

When God is silent, remember everything He’s taught you prior. The silence is not abandonment but a test.

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**By Pastor Vladimir Savchuk / Photo by Louis Bauer at Pexels