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10 Wicked Women in the Bible: Lessons on Avoiding Destructive Traits

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The Bible is rich with stories of women whose actions exemplified both righteousness and wickedness, offering lessons that resonate across time. While the virtuous women of Scripture are often celebrated, the wicked women serve as cautionary tales, revealing the destructive consequences of sin, selfishness, and rebellion against God’s will. These women’s stories highlight traits we should avoid in our own lives. In this article, we explore the 10 most wicked women in the Bible, examine their actions, and reflect on the lessons they teach us about the dangers of sin and the importance of living according to God’s ways.

1. Jezebel – The Queen of Idolatry and Deceit (1 Kings 16:31–2 Kings 9:37)

Jezebel, the wife of King Ahab, is one of the most notorious women in Scripture. She led Israel into idolatry, encouraging the worship of Baal and other false gods. She used manipulation and deceit to achieve her ends, even ordering the murder of innocent men, like the prophet Naboth, in order to seize his vineyard (1 Kings 21). Jezebel’s legacy is one of pride, wickedness, and opposition to God’s prophets, ultimately leading to her downfall.

Lesson: Jezebel’s story teaches us the dangers of idolatry, manipulation, and unrepentant pride. We should avoid using deceitful means to gain power or achieve our desires. True fulfillment comes through humility and obedience to God, not through manipulation or self-serving actions.

2. Delilah – The Betrayer (Judges 16:4-22)

Delilah’s story is infamous for her betrayal of Samson, the mighty judge of Israel. After being bribed by the Philistine rulers, she used her relationship with Samson to discover the secret of his strength—his uncut hair. Once she learned it, she betrayed him, leading to his capture and eventual death (Judges 16). Delilah’s love of money and desire for personal gain led her to destroy the man who trusted her.

Lesson: Delilah’s betrayal highlights the destructive power of greed and selfishness. We should be careful in relationships, ensuring that our motives are pure and rooted in trust and loyalty. Betrayal for personal gain can lead to irreversible harm.

3. Athaliah – The Power-Hungry Queen (2 Kings 11:1-20; 2 Chronicles 22:10-23:21)

Athaliah, the daughter of Jezebel, was a ruthless queen who sought to eliminate all potential heirs to the throne, including her own grandchildren, to secure her reign. After her son’s death, she slaughtered the royal family, only sparing her grandson Joash, who was hidden and later crowned king. Her reign was marked by idolatry and bloodshed, and she was eventually overthrown and killed.

Lesson: Athaliah’s thirst for power and her willingness to destroy others to maintain control serve as a stark warning against ambition at any cost. Seeking power through violence, manipulation, and destruction of others will only lead to downfall. God’s sovereignty and justice will prevail in the end.

4. Herodias – The Murderous Conspirator (Mark 6:17-29; Matthew 14:3-12)

Herodias, the wife of King Herod, is remembered for her role in the beheading of John the Baptist. When John publicly condemned her marriage to Herod (her uncle), Herodias held a grudge against him. She plotted with her daughter, Salome, to have John killed, demanding his head as a reward for Salome’s dance. Herodias’ desire for revenge led to a tragic loss of an innocent life.

Lesson: Herodias’ actions reveal the danger of harboring unforgiveness, bitterness, and the desire for revenge. Instead of seeking justice, her heart was filled with malice, leading to a senseless death. We should seek peace, forgiveness, and reconciliation rather than holding onto destructive anger.

5. The Woman of Tekoa – The Deceptive Schemer (2 Samuel 14:1-20)

The woman of Tekoa was sent by King David’s advisor, Joab, to convince David to reconcile with his estranged son Absalom. To achieve this, she used a fabricated story of her own family’s tragedy to manipulate David’s emotions. While she succeeded in her mission, she did so through deception and dishonesty, exploiting David’s compassion to sway his judgment.

Lesson: The woman of Tekoa’s story highlights the dangers of using deceit and manipulation to influence others. While we may be tempted to bend the truth for personal gain, God calls us to honesty and integrity, even in difficult situations.

6. Lot’s Wife – The Woman Who Looked Back (Genesis 19:15-26)

Lot’s wife is often remembered for one tragic action: she looked back at the burning city of Sodom when fleeing God’s destruction. Despite being warned not to look back, she did, and she was turned into a pillar of salt. Her longing for the comforts of her past life led to her demise.

Lesson: Lot’s wife represents the danger of holding on to past sins and worldly attachments. In moments of transition and growth, we must resist the temptation to return to familiar but destructive behaviors. Trusting God’s plan for the future is crucial to moving forward in faith.

7. Sapphira – The Liar (Acts 5:1-11)

Sapphira, along with her husband Ananias, lied to the apostles about the amount of money they had received from selling property, pretending to donate all of it while secretly keeping part for themselves. Their deception was discovered by the Holy Spirit, and they both fell dead as a result of their sin. Sapphira’s sin was not just lying, but attempting to deceive God and the community.

Lesson: Sapphira’s story teaches the destructive power of lying, especially when motivated by selfishness or greed. God sees all, and pretending to be something we are not can have severe consequences. Integrity and honesty are key to living in alignment with God’s will.

8. The Witch of Endor – The Practitioner of Sorcery (1 Samuel 28:3-25)

The Witch of Endor was a medium whom King Saul consulted when he was desperate to hear from the spirit of the deceased prophet Samuel. Despite the Lord’s commands against necromancy and sorcery, Saul sought her out for guidance. This act of disobedience and reliance on occult practices ultimately led to his downfall.

Lesson: The Witch of Endor represents the danger of seeking spiritual guidance outside of God’s will. Practices such as witchcraft, sorcery, and necromancy are forbidden because they turn us away from trusting in God and His sovereignty. We must be vigilant against seeking guidance from any source other than the Lord.

9. Hagar – The Bitter Outsider (Genesis 16:1-16)

Hagar, Sarah’s Egyptian maidservant, became the mother of Ishmael after Sarah, unable to have children, gave her to Abraham as a surrogate. Hagar’s bitterness towards Sarah and her prideful behavior caused tension and conflict in the household. Though she was a victim of her circumstances, her actions reflect an unwillingness to accept God’s timing.

Lesson: Hagar’s story teaches the importance of patience and trust in God’s plan. When we take matters into our own hands instead of waiting for God’s provision, it can lead to unnecessary conflict and heartache. God’s timing is always best.

10. Eve – The First Sinner (Genesis 3:1-24)

Eve, the first woman created by God, is infamous for her role in the Fall of humanity. She was deceived by the serpent into eating the forbidden fruit and then gave it to Adam. Her disobedience led to the expulsion of humanity from the Garden of Eden and the entrance of sin into the world.

Lesson: Eve’s actions highlight the consequences of disobedience and the temptation of sin. While we may face similar temptations in our lives, we must resist the urge to act outside of God’s commands. The story of Eve also reminds us of God’s grace and the hope for redemption through Christ.

Conclusion

The stories of these wicked women in the Bible serve as stark reminders of the destructive power of sin and the consequences of defying God’s will. Each of their actions led to harm, whether through pride, manipulation, deceit, revenge, jealousy, greed, disbelief or rebellion. However, their stories also offer us valuable lessons: to avoid pride, greed, deception, and unforgiveness, and to instead live in humility, honesty, patience, and obedience to God. By learning from their mistakes, we can strive to cultivate godly character and avoid the destructive traits that led to their downfall. May we look to these stories not just as warnings, but as opportunities to grow in wisdom and grace.

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Speaking the Truth in Love in a World That Hates the Light

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In an age where feelings are exalted over facts and truth is treated like hate speech, speaking God’s Word can feel like standing alone in the storm. Yet Proverbs 1:7 (AMP) reminds us: “The fear of the Lord is the beginning of knowledge, but fools despise skillful and godly wisdom and instruction.” The wise welcome correction because it leads to growth. The foolish resist it because it confronts their comfort, pride, or sin. That resistance grows when people believe they are in control—smarter than God. Some mock His Word to justify rebellion, normalize sin, and persuade others that “everyone is doing it.” When the truth exposes their darkness, they often attack the messenger: “Why listen to that ‘foolish’ person? I’m more intelligent than them.” But Scripture cuts through the pride: “God chose the foolish things of the world to shame the wise… so that no one may boast before him.” (1 Corinthians 1:27–29)

They may become rude, dismissive, or even hostile—not because the truth is wrong, but because it demands change. And change requires humility, repentance, and letting go of false comfort.

Jesus explained the root of this rejection: “And this is the judgment: the light has come into the world, and people loved the darkness rather than the light because their deeds were evil.” (John 3:19) Darkness offers the illusion of safety. Many—even those who call themselves Christians—live with a cultural faith, not a transformed life. They may know church songs but not God’s Word, speak about Jesus but never obey Him, or share Bible verses online without living by them. When truth reveals this gap between appearance and reality, the reaction is often not repentance but hostility. Admitting the truth means admitting a lie has been lived. That’s painful. It shatters pride and forces people to confront uncomfortable realities about themselves and their choices.

Paul asked the Galatians, “Have I now become your enemy by telling you the truth?” (Galatians 4:16) Speaking truth will sometimes cost you relationships. When you reveal the difference between cultural Christianity and genuine faith, you become a threat. People do not want to hear that faith without obedience is dead (James 2:26), that repentance is essential (Luke 13:3), or that lukewarm faith is unacceptable to God (Revelation 3:16). It’s easier to discredit the messenger than to face the need for personal change.

Jesus warned His followers, “If the world hates you, know that it has hated me before it hated you.” (John 15:18) Paul also wrote, “Indeed, all who desire to live a godly life in Christ Jesus will be persecuted.” (2 Timothy 3:12) Living in the light will not make you popular. You may lose friends, be misunderstood, or be ridiculed. You might feel left out, pushed aside, or treated like the problem. But God has not called us to be liked—He has called us to be faithful.

Still, even when it hurts, we must shine the light. Not everyone will reject it—some will be drawn to it, convicted of their sin, and transformed by God’s grace. You may not see the change immediately, but your obedience plants seeds God can water later. Jesus said, “You are the light of the world. A city set on a hill cannot be hidden.” (Matthew 5:14) When you face rejection, remember that it is not truly you they reject—it is God. Your task is obedience; the results are His.

So let your light shine. Do not let fear, pride, or the enemy blow it out. Even if speaking the truth costs you everything, remember the words of the old song: “This little light of mine, I’m gonna let it shine…” Keep shining, because the light you carry is not your own—it is the Light of Christ. And no matter how loud the darkness shouts, His light will outshine every shadow.

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How Satan Uses Offense To Trap You

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In life, we can’t avoid experiencing offense. However, the Bible does command us as believers to ensure we are not offending other people (Luke 17:1). How you deal with it when it comes–whether you take offense and let it become a demonic trap or use it as an opportunity to grow—is really up to you. 

What’s interesting is that the word “offense” used in the New Testament is scandalon. Scandalon was the trigger of a trap on which bait is placed. When an animal touched the trigger to eat the bait, the trap would spring shut and the animal would get caught. Offense works the same way. Whether the hurt was intentional or not makes no difference—the bait is laid, and if you take it, the trap springs shut, leading to unforgiveness and bitterness. Here is how offense looks and how to overcome it.

Offense is a stumbling block to your destiny. 

The Profile of an Offended Person

  1. Entitlement – An offended person feels like they are owed something. They value what they have in themselves and feel like they worked very hard and deserve to be elevated. When they don’t receive what they believe they deserve, they feel rejected and become offended.
  2. Pride – Pride makes people blind to their own flaws and causes them to blame others for their downfall. When corrected, they interpret it as, “I messed up again,” rather than seeing it as an opportunity for growth.
  3. Focus on Unfairness – Offended people often feel that church leaders and others treat them unfairly. They get hurt when their gifts are not recognized and build resentment. Many times, God allows perceived unfairness to test and refine our character.
  4. Control – Offended people often desire to control situations. When they cannot have things their way, they get offended and leave relationships or churches. If they had stayed under strong, anointed leadership that didn’t cater to their selfish ambitions, they would have received the healing they didn’t even realize they needed.

How to Overcome Offense

Offense focuses your attention on what people did rather than what God is doing. 

It blinds you to God’s timing and purpose, keeping you stuck in bitterness instead of moving forward in faith. Here’s how to overcome it.

1. When Your Heart is Hardened, Good Things Happening to You Will Not Change It

First off, it’s important to understand that people whose hearts are hardened by offense think that if their environment changes, they will no longer be offended. But, a hardened heart does not soften just because circumstances improve.

Psalm 95:7-11 and Hebrews repeat the warning: “When you hear my voice, do not harden your heart, as in the day of wilderness, when your fathers saw my works, yet they rebelled against me.” The Israelites saw miracles, yet they remained hardened in their hearts. Even with a great leader like Moses and supernatural provision, their offense remained.

2. Take God Very Seriously, and Stop Taking Yourself Too Seriously

Secondly, know that offended people are often obsessed with themselves. In many cases, they become overly sensitive to what others say but are not sensitive enough to the Holy Spirit. Instead of living in constant offense, we should humble ourselves, focus on God, and learn to live with a servant’s heart.

3. Keep Your Heart Right When Things Are Not Right

Another key step in overcoming offense is understanding that while justice, mercy, and humility are essential, the enemy uses injustice to create offense in our hearts. If things are not right around you, don’t let your heart become sick. You can advocate for change, but never let offense take root.

4. Never Grow Out of Repentance

Next, choose to offer forgiveness to those who have hurt you. I’ve noticed that if you wait too long to forgive, your hurt will turn into bitterness and offense. Unforgiveness will do more damage to you than what others did. Growth in God means constant repentance and humility.

Never outgrow your need for repentance.

5. Lean Into Awkward Conversations

And lastly, the Bible tells us in Matthew 5:23 that, “If you bring your gift to the altar and remember that your brother has something against you, leave your gift there and first be reconciled.”

In other words, if you know someone is offended at you, it is your responsibility to go to them. Instead of defending yourself, hear them out, affirm their feelings, and take responsibility where necessary. Many relationships have been healed through this approach. Unfortunately, instead of going to the person, people often gossip and build “us versus them” cultures, which only fuels division and offense.

Don’t let Satan trap you; instead, choose to walk away from offense, deny yourself, and follow Jesus. I pray this helps.

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God Remains the Same Yesterday, Today, and Tomorrow

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“…This is what the Sovereign Lord says: Whoever will listen let them listen, and whoever will refuse let them refuse; for they are a rebellious people.” ~ Ezekiel 3:27

In today’s rapidly changing world—where technology, culture, and views on right and wrong are in constant flux—many wonder why they should follow a God who revealed Himself thousands of years ago. They believe that because times have changed, God should change too. However, the Bible clearly tells us that God never changes: “Jesus Christ is the same yesterday and today and forever” (Hebrews 13:8). While everything around us may pass away, God’s Word remains eternal. As Isaiah 40:8 states, “The grass withers, the flower fades, but the word of our God will stand forever.” No matter how much the world shifts, God’s truth remains unchanged.

God’s Wisdom is Greater Than Ours

Many today trust in science, human reasoning, and their own opinions, believing themselves wiser than God. Yet, the Bible teaches that God’s ways are not our ways, and His thoughts are higher than ours (Isaiah 55:8-9). The very minds people use to argue against God are gifts from Him. Rather than thanking Him, many reject Him and attempt to convince others to do the same, believing they know better than the Creator. True wisdom begins with respecting the Lord (Proverbs 9:10).

God’s Word is Still Relevant

Despite claims that the Bible is outdated, human nature remains unchanged. The same issues we face today—greed, lust, selfishness, violence, and pride—are the problems we see in Scripture. People are still searching for love, peace, and purpose, just as they always have. The Bible offers timeless wisdom for every generation. The world may change, but people’s need for God remains constant.

Why Do People Reject God?

People often reject God, not because of a lack of evidence, but because they want to live according to their own desires. They are aware that their actions are sinful, but instead of seeking change, they refuse to turn to God. As John 3:20 says, “Everyone who does wicked things hates the light and does not come to the light, lest his works should be exposed.” Lust and sexual immorality are some of the most powerful forces that drive people away from God. Sin causes spiritual blindness, leading individuals to choose darkness over the light of God.

The Rejection of Jesus and Mocking His Name

An important aspect of rejecting God today is the casual use of Jesus’ name as a swear word. Many people use His name in vain, as though doing so diminishes His power or significance. However, Jesus is the One who gave us salvation—He is the only mediator between God and man (1 Timothy 2:5). To mock His name is not merely an attempt to trivialise Him, but an effort to justify sinful lifestyles. People who use Jesus’ name in this way aim to defy His authority and reject the truth of His gospel, which calls them to turn away from sin and embrace righteousness. Instead of respecting Him, they try to diminish who He is in their minds, hoping to justify their behaviours. This is not just disrespect—it’s a rejection of the only One who offers forgiveness and eternal life.

Leading Others into Sin

Not only do some reject God, but they also try to lead others into sin. They mock God, mislead others, and present His truth as irrelevant. Jesus warned against such hypocrisy in Matthew 23:13: “You shut the door of the kingdom of heaven in people’s faces. You yourselves do not enter, nor will you let those enter who are trying to.” People who mislead others know their actions are wrong but try to justify their rebellion by convincing others that living according to God’s Word is foolish. This deception leads others away from the truth and towards destruction.

Why Doesn’t God Punish Those Who Mock Him?

Some question why God doesn’t punish those who mock Him. The answer is simple: God is patient. As 2 Peter 3:9 explains, “The Lord is not slow in keeping His promise… Instead, He is patient with you, not wanting anyone to perish, but everyone to come to repentance.” God is offering everyone time to repent. His patience reflects His mercy, but one day, judgment will come, and everyone will have to answer for their actions. As Philippians 2:10-11 reminds us, “Every knee will bow, and every tongue will confess that Jesus Christ is Lord.”

Pray for Those Who Are Blinded

The rejection of God, especially by those who actively try to turn others away, stems from spiritual blindness. As 2 Corinthians 4:4 states, “The god of this world has blinded the minds of unbelievers, to keep them from seeing the light of the gospel of the glory of Christ.” Rather than harbouring anger, we must pray for those who are lost. Their blindness is not entirely their fault, as they are under the enemy’s influence. Just as Jesus prayed for His persecutors (Luke 23:34), we too must pray for God to open their eyes to the truth.

Stand Strong in Your Faith

In a world that rejects God’s truth, we must remain firm in our faith. Though the world may call us outdated or foolish, God’s Word never changes. As Hebrews 4:12 tells us, the Bible is alive and powerful. Regardless of the world’s changes, God’s love, power, and truth remain the same. As Christians, we are called to be salt and light in a world that needs the gospel. Even when others reject God, we must stand firm in His truth and pray for those who are lost, asking God to open their hearts to the message of salvation. For Jesus Christ is the same yesterday, today, and forever.

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15 Characteristics of Humility: A Biblical Guide to Living Humbly

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Humility is a core virtue that lies at the heart of a life devoted to God. It is the opposite of pride, which exalts self and separates us from God and others. Instead, humility draws us closer to God, allowing us to serve others and grow spiritually. The Bible consistently highlights humility as a hallmark of Christlikeness, urging believers to embrace it in their daily lives.

This article explores 15 characteristics of humility as seen in Scripture, offering practical insights into how we can cultivate this transformative virtue. Through these traits, we learn that humility is not weakness but a powerful reflection of trust in God, love for others, and obedience to His will.

1. Dependence on God

Humility begins by acknowledging that we are utterly reliant on God for strength, guidance, and provision. Proverbs 3:5-6 tells us to trust in the Lord with all our heart, not leaning on our understanding. A humble heart seeks God’s will daily, knowing that apart from Him, we are powerless (John 15:5). This dependence fosters prayerfulness and a deep relationship with God.

2. Selflessness

A humble person considers others’ needs as more important than their own (Philippians 2:3-4). Selflessness mirrors Jesus, who humbled Himself to serve humanity by dying on the cross (Philippians 2:5-8). This selflessness is seen in acts of kindness, generosity, and sacrificial love for others.

3. Repentance and Teachability

Humility involves recognizing our mistakes and seeking God’s forgiveness. King David demonstrated this in Psalm 51, where he repents sincerely after his sin. Furthermore, humility makes a person open to correction and instruction. Proverbs 9:9 says, “Give instruction to a wise man, and he will be still wiser.” A teachable spirit reflects trust in God’s wisdom over our own.

4. Gratitude

Gratitude flows naturally from a humble heart that acknowledges God’s blessings. 1 Thessalonians 5:18 commands us to give thanks in all circumstances. This gratitude shifts our focus from entitlement to appreciation, fostering contentment and joy in God’s provision.

5. Modesty

A modest person does not seek to glorify themselves or elevate their achievements. Romans 12:3 reminds us not to think of ourselves more highly than we ought. Modesty is reflected in speaking, dressing, and behaving in ways that draw attention to God, not self.

6. Submission to God

Submitting to God requires surrendering our desires and ambitions to His authority. James 4:7 urges us to submit to God and resist the devil. This involves trusting His plans and obeying His Word, even when it is challenging or countercultural.

7. Submission to Others

Ephesians 5:21 calls us to submit to one another out of reverence for Christ. This mutual submission fosters harmony in relationships, whether in marriage, friendships, or community. It reflects a willingness to put others’ needs above our own and honor their perspectives.

8. Trust in God’s Justice

A humble person refrains from seeking revenge or vindication. Romans 12:19 says, “Do not take revenge, my dear friends, but leave room for God’s wrath.” Trusting in God’s justice requires humility to let go of the need for control and trust that He will make all things right.

9. Gentleness and Meekness

Gentleness, a fruit of the Spirit (Galatians 5:23), is a hallmark of humility. It involves responding to others with kindness and restraint, even when provoked. Jesus described Himself as “gentle and lowly in heart” (Matthew 11:29), setting an example of how to treat others with compassion and patience.

10. A Listening Ear

Humility is demonstrated by a willingness to listen to others and value their input. James 1:19 says, “Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to become angry.” A humble person doesn’t dominate conversations but instead seeks to understand and learn from others.

11. Obedience to God

Obedience is an act of humility, as it requires surrendering our will to God’s commands. Jesus exemplified this in His prayer at Gethsemane, saying, “Not My will, but Yours be done” (Luke 22:42). Obedience shows trust in God’s wisdom and love.

12. Patience

Humility fosters patience by trusting God’s timing and enduring trials without complaint. Colossians 3:12 encourages believers to clothe themselves with patience, along with compassion, kindness, and humility. Patience reflects a heart that is at peace with God’s plan.

13. Willingness to Forgive

Forgiveness is a key characteristic of humility. Ephesians 4:32 tells us to forgive others as Christ forgave us. A humble person recognizes their own need for forgiveness and extends the same grace to others, breaking the cycle of bitterness and resentment.

14. Avoid Boasting

A humble person avoids boasting about their achievements or possessions. Jeremiah 9:23-24 says, “Let not the wise boast of their wisdom or the strong boast of their strength… but let the one who boasts boast about this: that they have the understanding to know Me.” Humility directs attention to God rather than self.

15. Servanthood

Servanthood is one of the clearest expressions of humility. Jesus demonstrated this when He washed His disciples’ feet, saying, “I have set you an example that you should do as I have done for you” (John 13:14-15). A humble person willingly serves others, finding joy in meeting their needs without seeking recognition.

Conclusion

Humility is a transformative virtue that aligns us with God’s heart and helps us reflect Christ in our daily lives. These 15 characteristics—dependence on God, selflessness, repentance, gratitude, modesty, and more—provide a roadmap for cultivating humility. By embracing these qualities, we can glorify God, deepen our faith, and strengthen our relationships with others.

Prayer

Heavenly Father,

Thank You for teaching us the beauty of humility through Your Word and the example of Jesus Christ. Help us to embody these 15 characteristics in our lives, that we may serve You faithfully and reflect Your love to those around us. Shape our hearts to be humble, patient, and kind, always seeking Your will above our own. In Jesus’ name, we pray. Amen.

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