In a world that often encourages control, ambition, and personal success, it is easy to fall into the trap of believing that we can dictate our own outcomes. We plan, strive, and expect life to unfold according to our desires. But when things do not go our way, we become frustrated—sometimes even angry at God. However, Scripture reminds us that our plans are not ultimate; only God’s will prevails.

God Alone is in Control

We cannot control other people, nor can we force circumstances to conform to our will. Proverbs 16:9 tells us, “The heart of man plans his way, but the Lord establishes his steps.” This truth challenges our human desire for control. We often enter situations with preconceived notions of how they should unfold, and when they don’t, we blame others, complain about life’s unfairness, or feel discontent.

But why should we let unmet expectations rob us of peace? Jesus Himself taught us to pray, “Your will be done, on earth as it is in heaven” (Matthew 6:10). Surrendering to God’s will is not about passivity—it is about trust. It is about acknowledging that He sees the whole picture while we only see a fragment. His wisdom is infinite, and His plans are far greater than ours.

His Grace is Sufficient for Today

Instead of chasing after the wind—seeking fulfillment in things that will never satisfy—why not rest in the sufficiency of God’s grace? The Apostle Paul, despite enduring trials, declared, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness” (2 Corinthians 12:9). Each day, God provides exactly what we need to endure, to thrive, and to glorify Him. His mercies are new every morning (Lamentations 3:22-23), a fresh reminder that He sustains us, no matter what yesterday held.

Choosing Gratitude Over Discontent

Gratitude shifts our focus from what we lack to what God has abundantly provided. Paul writes in 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18, “Rejoice always, pray without ceasing, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you.” When we live with gratitude, we stop seeing life as a series of disappointments and instead recognize each moment as a gift from God.

If we truly trust that our Heavenly Father knows us better than we know ourselves, then why do we resist His plan? Why do we struggle to obey when He has ordained our lives before the foundation of the earth (Ephesians 1:4)? The choice is clear—we can either walk in obedience, resting in His perfect will, or we can resist and continue striving in vain.

A Call to Surrender

Ultimately, our role is not to manipulate outcomes but to trust in the One who controls them. Our task is not to demand that God follow our script but to surrender joyfully to His perfect plan. When we release our grip on control, we find true peace—the peace that surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7).

Let us, then, be content in the day the Lord has given us. Let us rest in His grace, trust in His mercies, and live with gratitude. And above all, let us surrender our will to the One who holds all things in His hands. For His will be done—not ours.

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** Photo by Irina Iriser