“If anyone causes one of these little ones—those who believe in me—to stumble, it would be better for them to have a large millstone hung around their neck and to be drowned in the depths of the sea” ~ Matthew 18:6, NASB
The Responsibility of Encouraging Others in Faith
The Bible warns believers about the critical responsibility of not causing others to stumble in their faith. As followers of Christ, we are called to support and strengthen each other on our spiritual journeys. However, our actions and beliefs can sometimes unintentionally hinder others. God’s Word addresses this responsibility in examining how our conduct can either build others up or lead them astray.
Leading Others Astray
Idolatry—whether it involves prioritizing worldly desires, personal achievements, or even religious practices over genuine faith—can mislead those who are weaker in faith. The Apostle Paul cautions us about actions that might affect less spiritually mature individuals: “But take care that this liberty of yours does not somehow become a stumbling block to the weak. For if someone sees you, who have knowledge, dining in an idol’s temple, will not his conscience, if he is weak, be strengthened to eat things sacrificed to idols? For through your knowledge the one who is weak is ruined, the brother or sister for whose sake Christ died” (1 Corinthians 8:9-11, NASB). Paul’s words remind us that even permissible actions can lead others into confusion or compromise, compelling us to reflect on whether our behaviors could inadvertently cause someone to stumble.
Honoring God’s Commandments
In Matthew 5:19, Jesus warns against disregarding God’s commandments: “Whoever then annuls one of the least of these commandments, and teaches others to do the same, shall be called least in the kingdom of heaven; but whoever keeps and teaches them, he shall be called great in the kingdom of heaven” (Matthew 5:19, NASB). Disregarding even the smallest commandment can weaken the faith of others. Conversely, by honoring God’s Word, we inspire others to do the same, thereby strengthening the community’s faith. Moreover, we must be cautious about adopting the ways of the world and the traditions of men that may conflict with Scripture. Following societal norms or customs that contradict God’s Word can create confusion and lead others away from the truth.
The Importance of Integrity in Conduct
One area where we must be particularly vigilant is in our honesty and integrity. Lying or stealing, no matter how small, is still stealing. This includes taking office supplies, time, or anything from work simply because “everyone else is doing it.” Justifying theft based on others’ actions does not make it right. Our faith calls us to uphold honesty in all areas of our lives, setting an example for those around us. By living with integrity, we not only honor God but also encourage others to do the same. This integrity extends beyond work to encompass all aspects of life, including our interactions in society and our commitment to ethical living.
Revealing Truth to the Humble
In Luke 10:21, Jesus speaks about God’s revelation to those with humble hearts: “At that very time He rejoiced greatly in the Holy Spirit, and said, ‘I praise You, O Father, Lord of heaven and earth, that You have hidden these things from the wise and intelligent and have revealed them to infants. Yes, Father, for this way was well-pleasing in Your sight’” (Luke 10:21, NASB). Jesus highlights that God’s truths are often hidden from those who rely on their own wisdom and instead revealed to those who approach with humility, like “infants.” This reinforces that spiritual understanding isn’t about intellectual superiority but rather a sincere, open heart. When we humble ourselves and live according to God’s Word, we set an example that can attract others to the faith instead of pushing them away.
Humility in Spiritual Leadership
Jesus warns against self-exaltation in spiritual roles, encouraging humility rather than titles: “Do not be called Rabbi; for One is your Teacher… Do not call anyone on earth your father; for One is your Father, He who is in heaven… Whoever exalts himself shall be humbled; and whoever humbles himself shall be exalted” (Matthew 23:8-12, NASB). Jesus’ instruction here warns us not only against the spiritual titles themselves but also against the implications that often come with them. Titles such as “Rabbi” or “Father” can create a perception of spiritual superiority, subtly implying that these leaders hold an authority or seniority in faith above even Christ Himself. Such titles risk positioning human leaders as intermediaries between believers and God, a role meant for Jesus alone. True greatness, as Jesus teaches, lies in humility and servanthood rather than in positions or titles that might elevate one believer over others. Embracing humility ensures that others are drawn to God rather than to individuals.
Living as a Guide, Not a Stumbling Block
Each believer has a role in encouraging others on their spiritual journey. Whether through our words, actions, or attitudes, we have the power to guide others toward God or potentially lead them away. This is a serious responsibility and one that requires careful reflection. Are there areas in our lives where we might be causing others to stumble, even unintentionally? In the end, living a life that honors God’s teachings, seeks humility, and serves others strengthens our own faith and provides a positive example for others. Jesus taught that greatness in God’s Kingdom is found not in titles or self-exaltation but in humility, obedience, and servanthood. Let us strive to live in a way that lifts others up, helping them grow in faith, rather than becoming a stumbling block in their journey toward God.
The Call to Action
We must also be vigilant about the sins that may not be overtly addressed in Scripture but can lead ourselves and others astray. Consider the following examples of behaviors that could lead to spiritual compromise:
• Encouraging Unethical Behavior: Engaging in unethical acts or covering up wrongdoing sends a message that ethical boundaries can be compromised. Things like bribing or covering up wrongdoing harms individuals and contributes to a culture of lawlessness. Such actions send a message that ethical boundaries can be compromised for convenience or personal gain.
• Coercing Others to Compromise: Pressuring individuals to act against their conscience. A common example is a boss demanding inappropriate behavior from a subordinate, showing how authority can be abused to lead others into compromise. Even subtle pressure to agree with ungodly standards or engage in dishonest practices undermines integrity and can cause spiritual harm.
• Immodest Behavior and Negative Role Modeling: Dressing indecently, promoting sexual promiscuity, or using God’s name in vain and profanity can have negative effects on others. In a society that often celebrates immodesty, these behaviors can lead others into inappropriate thoughts or actions. Social media frequently glamorizes such behavior, misleading many to believe it’s desirable or acceptable, distracting them from God’s call to purity. When individuals, especially those who profess faith, live in a way that contradicts biblical teachings, it creates confusion and weakens their witness. Additionally, religious idolatry—placing traditions of men or false doctrines above God’s Word—can steer others away from the true Gospel.
• Misleading Others in Faith: Preaching doctrines that contradict the Gospel leads many away from true teachings. The rise of the “prosperity gospel” and similar messages that twist scripture to justify lavish lifestyles distorts followers’ understanding of faith, emphasizing material gain over spiritual growth. When the traditions of men or false doctrines are given precedence over God’s Word, it further misleads people, as they begin to value human interpretations over God’s truth as revealed in the Bible.
• Neglecting Responsibilities: Being irresponsible in relationships—whether by failing to provide for family, abandoning children, or neglecting elderly parents—harms those directly affected and can influence others to act similarly. In a society that often prioritizes individual freedom over commitment, such neglect can have far-reaching effects on families and communities.
• Disrespecting the Body as a Temple: Behaviors like excessive drinking, smoking, overeating, or other actions that harm the body show disregard for the teaching that the body is the temple of the Holy Spirit. By damaging one’s physical health, these actions not only harm the individual but also suggest to others that caring for the body isn’t necessary. Living in a way that honors God includes taking care of one’s body as an act of respect and worship, modeling that our lives should glorify God in all aspects.
As followers of Christ, we must heed the warning found in Matthew 18:6: “If anyone causes one of these little ones—those who believe in me—to stumble, it would be better for them to have a large millstone hung around their neck and to be drowned in the depths of the sea” (Matthew 18:6, NASB). Such a fate underscores the serious consequences of leading others astray. While temptation is rampant, each individual is called to strive against these influences and uphold God’s commandments. As we grow in faith and knowledge, let us encourage one another to seek humility, holiness, and integrity. Overcoming sin and living a life that reflects God’s love and truth is only possible through His grace and intervention. As Jesus reminds us, “With man this is impossible, but with God all things are possible” (Matthew 19:26).
Prayer
Heavenly Father, we come before You in humility and sincere repentance. We acknowledge that our actions and words may have caused others to stumble or even turn away from You. We confess that, at times, our behavior has not reflected the holiness and love You call us to live by. Forgive us, Lord, for every instance where we have failed to be a true example of Christ to others.
Lord, we recognize that our unchristlike actions might have led others astray. For each person we may have harmed in their journey, we ask that You bring healing and restoration. Draw them back to Your heart, Father, and redeem every situation where we may have been a stumbling block. By Your mercy, erase the damage caused by our shortcomings and rekindle their faith, drawing them closer to You.
Cleanse us from our sins, and give us a new heart that seeks only to honor You in all we say and do. Holy Spirit, we invite You to dwell within us, guiding us and empowering us to live righteously as Your ambassadors here on earth. Grant us the strength to overcome our weaknesses, and help us to walk in holiness and humility, as You are holy.
Lord, we thank You for Your unfailing grace and forgiveness. We trust that, as we confess our sins and turn from them, You are faithful to forgive and restore us. Shape us into vessels of love, compassion, and truth, that we may uplift those around us and bring honor to Your name.
In Jesus’ name, we pray. Amen!
Let us be blessed as we live as examples of Christ’s love, lifting each other up on our journey toward faith.
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** Based on article by Musawenkosi Dube at Holiness Advocate
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